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Menu Plan Monday

2011-09-12T08:00:00.000-05:00

Monday: Baked Mostacolli

Cheesy Garlic Bread

Salad

Tuesday: Always an eat-out night...way too many activities :)

Wednesday: Crockpot Orange Chicken

White Rice

Veggies

Thursday: Chicken Roll Ups

Velveeta Shells and Cheese

Peas (only green veggie M will eat)

Friday: Bandit Softball/Bar Food???

Saturday: Mystery Dinner Party

I am going to load up on Carbs because I have a 6k to run on Sunday morning!!

Sunday: Breakfast for Dinner

Cinnamon Sugar French Toast Bites

Sausage Links

Scrambled Eggs

XOXO,

Miller

Menu Plan Monday

2011-08-29T08:00:00.000-05:00

As most of you know, Malakai was SICK this past week! Thankfully, he is feeling much better now, but it kind of through everything off the entire week.

My favorite recipe, by far, was the Philly Cheese Steak Sloppy Joe! This was the FIRST time I had ever chopped an onion and cooked with it. Is that a sign of getting old? I have ALWAYS omitted onion from EVERY recipe that ever called for it. One thing I would do different is use buns instead of dinner roles...they were WAY too small.

The ravioli was SUPER easy and tasted yummy enough for the kids to ask for seconds.

The pizza's are on the grill as I type this, and the Chimichangas I didn't get to, so they will be rolling over to this weeks menu...

Monday:

Chicken Chimichangas

Spanish Rice

Refried Beans

Tuesday:

Parmesan-Crusted Tilapia

Rice Pilaf

Green Beans

Wednesday:

This is my NEW recipe to try!!

Taco Pasta

Salad

Thursday:

Crockpot BBQ Chicken

Asparagus

Mashed Potatoes

Friday:

Josh and I have a special event to attend so we will be ordering pizza for the kids :)

Saturday:

Leftovers

Sunday:

Labor Day Weekend...who is hosting the party????!!!!!

I am linked at www.orgjunkie.com

XOXO,

Miller

Menu Plan Monday...Is BACK!!

2011-08-22T08:30:00.002-05:00

Well, school has started again, which means we have moved on to a more "structured" lifestyle...at least more structured compared to summer! That means it is time to begin menu planning again! Can I get a Whoo Hoo??!!

Every week my goal is to try one brand new recipe, and one crock-pot recipe. This is a new challenge, so we will see how it goes :)

Monday:

Hawaiian BBQ Chicken - Josh made this over the weekend, it was fabulous, and we are having the left-overs :)

Corn on the Cob

Baked Beans (from a can...that's how I roll)

Tuesday:

Philly Cheesesteak Sloppy Joes - This is my NEW recipe!

Salad

Pita Chips

Wednesday: This will be my crock-pot night since Malakai has soccer practice and we need something read when we get home!

Crockpot Ravioli - Since this doesn't have to cook very long, I can run home after work, put it together, go pick up the kids, head to soccer, and it will be ready when we get home! Love that!

Cheesy Garlic Bread

Thursday:

Chicken Chimichangas

Spanish Rice

Refried Beans

Friday: Bandit Softball, hopefully some yummy bar food ;)

Saturday: Whatever we want...Saturdays are go with the flow...

Sunday: When the weather allows, Josh ALWAYS grills on Sundays...

Pizza on the Grill - Pepperoni and Cheese

I'm linked at www.orgjunkie.com

XOXO,
Miller

First Grade

2011-08-19T08:00:00.001-05:00

I know I say this every year, but I can not believe Malakai is in First Grade! He has grown SO much over the summer...physically and mentally. He is becoming such a little man and I am so proud of who has become.

Here he is last year in Kindergarten...

Here he is as a very grown-up 1st Grader...

Of course, here are two VERY proud parents...

I had a very early meeting, so Josh actually dropped him off with very specific instructions on what pictures to take. He did a fabulous job! Such a good daddy!!

We also took a few minutes this morning to say a prayer for a very special little boy...Connor Simpson. Even though Connor isn't starting 1st grade with Malakai, he will always be his Guardian Angel and will forever remain on Malakai's shoulder as well as in all of our hearts. We love you Connor, and we all miss you dearly! Here is the exerpt from the yearbook last year.

Connor

Last but not least, here is the little "Back To School" gift Malakai gave his teacher...

Thank you Pinterest for all the great ideas and somehow motivating me to actually implement them!

Here is to a great year in First Grade Malakai! Love you bunches!!

XOXO,
Miller

Ten on Tuesday

2011-08-09T22:09:00.005-05:00

1. We have been making the best of our last few weeks of summer! It is bitter-sweet with school starting in just one short week. I love the relaxation of summer. No standard bed times (even though the kids are usually always in bed early), it's okay to stay up later. No homework. Lots of fun!

2. Malakai has been spending his summer at Vetta Sports Complex. By far, hands down, the best summer camp I have ever had the pleasure of experiencing! They are so organized, and he has a blast there! His days are filled with soccer, swimming, field trips, racket ball, karate, kickball and much more. If there is ever a time I have "working mom" guilt, it is in the summer. I just remember how excited I was for summer as a child, and I don't want him to lose out on that because I work. He has DEFINITELY had a fabulous summer!

3. We are going to the lake this weekend for the annual Rader Family Lake Trip. All my extended family goes and it is ALWAYS a fun time. I am planning the 2nd annual Scavenger Hunt, so I am very excited. Hopefully it is as successful as last year

4. Malakai had is first official sleep-over at our house! He has had my nieces and my little sister spend the night several times, but never friends. Thanks to Josh and Jason for being a part of it! They were perfect gentlemen and enjoyed eating pizza, watching movies, and making pallets on the living room floor. They went to bed late, and woke up early. It was good times had by all! As I was talking to Leila that night, she looks at me and says "Mommy, boys are SO loud and stinky!" I hope she keeps that attitude for a long time :)

5. Josh and I had some quality adult time at an adult only pool party Saturday night. It was SO much fun playing pool volleyball and relaxing, kid free, with great friends. I wish I had taken my camera, but I forgot. I did manage to get one photo on my phone. Look at these Hot Mamas, Sam and Jen! Love them :)

6. More swimming was done at a Bday party on Sunday! Malakai's little friend was turning 7 and we spent a beautiful day at the pool! We are truly blessed that Malakai has made such amazing friends and Josh and I as well, have met such amazing parents.

7. I cut my hair! I go through these phases where I grow it out, cut it off, grow it out, cut it off. I know it is time to cut it when I start wearing it pulled up all the time, and I was definitely at that point. What do you think?

8. Leila is a total photo poser now! I wonder where she gets that from ;)

9. We had yet ANOTHER pool party for the end of the year celebration for Malakai's St. Paul baseball team. Again, a fabulous time of swimming, friends, kids, pizza, and beer. What else can one ask for??!! I think the men had just as much fun as the boys!!

10. I am officially addicted to pinterest! It is the best thing next to the flat iron! If you haven't checked it out yet, you are totally missing out! LOVE IT!

XOXO,
Miller

Homemade Playdoh!

2011-08-02T21:13:00.005-05:00

The kids are going CRAZY with how hot it has been. Playing outside isn't even an option, unless it is swimming which we do A LOT of at the subdivision pool.

I thought it would be fun to do a little craft today after summer camp!

So, here comes the homemade play-doh!

Ingredients:

1 cup flour

1 cup warm water

2 teaspoons cream of tarter

1 teaspoon oil

1/4 cup salt

food coloring

Here are the directions:

1. Combine all ingredients (except food coloring) in a medium-sized saucepan...

2. Stir over medium heat until smooth

3. Stir continuously until the dough balls (about 1-2 minutes). Remove from heat.

4. When dough is cool enough to handle, knead until smooth.

5. Form into a ball.

6. Divide into as many colors as you'd like to make. A single batch makes a good amount for four colors.

7. Add food coloring to the divided dough. Gel food coloring works quite well, but mine was a little dried out, so I used liquid as well.

8. Knead the food coloring into the dough. To protect your hands, wear plastic or rubber gloves.

9. Put the dough in separate containers. Toddler-sized containers are a good size, and i have also wrapped the colors individually in wax paper and stored in zip-lock baggies.

The kids loved this activity, and had a blast making different creations. It was a nice project that they could be a part of from beginning to end!

Let me know if you try it out!!

XOXO,

Miller

August 1st...I have my life back!!

2011-08-01T08:01:00.000-05:00

Forgive me bloggers, for I have sinned...It has been 2.5 months since my last blog!

*GASP*

I am devastated to think that the whole reason I do this blog is so I can have it made into books for my children, and they are going to think "What the hell happened in 2011?!" All I will be able to say to them is "I'm sorry dear children, mommy had some f'ed up, crazy months!" They are not going to care, as you probably don't either to hear the details of my techy/nerdy job that has caused me check out for a while....at least from the blogging scene. They will however, be happy to hear that at least I cut out blogging and not laundry, cooking, going to the park, putting them to bed...well, you get the picture.

All that matters is, I'm back and I survived.

So, because I realize you all have been out of the loop, here are 31 "What the hell we have been up to" updates for you...In no particular order.

. We have a roommate! As many of you remember reading, my mom (who used to live in St. Louis) moved to Arizona about a year and a half ago. Well, she is back and has been with us since late June. My brother and sister-in-law are making the move from AZ to KC. Once that move is final, she will be spending two months with us, two months with them, and back and forth for....tbd. It has definitely been nice having her around and the kids ADORE her.

2. Since Malakai is entering 1st grade, he will become a cub scout!! At the end of the school year, we attended the cub scout picnic. It was cold, rainy, and a ton of fun!! It is nice for him to have an activity that isn't "Sport" related.

3. We hosted the 2nd annual Miller Memorial Day BBQ...our air conditioner DID NOT break this year so that in itself made it better than the year before ;) Complete with washers, water gun fights, and great friends. The little ones would cool off inside with a little Wii time...

4. We showed an outdoor movie, which was a HUGE hit!

My camera didn't do my "Screen" justice! You really couldn't see the design in the sheet...

5. My bestie of 20+ years came in town for the festivities....LOVE HER!

6. Leila has thrown her American Girl doll to the side and now goes nowhere with out Suzie! I'm not even sure where we acquired Suzie from, but she is like a rag doll and we had to duck-tape her body due to Bella torturing her.

7. I posted previously about Malakai and his Bandits Baseball team. Well, we also had a great season with the St. Paul Panthers. Lots of baseball around this house, which we LOVE!

8. Do you notice anything in the above picture? Malakai FINALLY lost his first tooth! Whoo hoo! We are at a total count of 2 so far this summer :)

9. Leilicious had her very first dance recital!! OMG! She was HILARIOUS! Those that know me know I have dreams of her being a competitive dancer/cheer girl. Mostly because my life was full of sports, sports, and more sports. I'm not sure how achievable this dream is. She doesn't take direction very well, but she definitely is the cutest one up there ;) I'm not biased at all!!

Getting a pre-game chat from dad...

I had to post this picture because it is a CLASSIC Malakai face anytime he is at Leila's dance classes!! LOL!

Yelled at him to actually SMILE!

Thanks to everyone who was able to join in the festivities of her first time on stage!

10. Poppy, Tutu, and Kiera

11. TT and Dada

12. Grandma

13. Melissa and I are selling Pure Romance!! If you aren't sure what that is...google it, then, if you are female, call me and book a party! We have been doing this since about April and it has been super successful. Especially considering how we both work our "Real" jobs together, so the craziness has effected both of us! It's fun, it gives us a girls night out, and it is making our Plastic Surgery Bank Account grow MUCH faster...Holla!

15. Back to Baseball...the Kirkwood Bandits were selected Channel 11 Team of the week!!! If you missed the video I posted, you can go to my facebook page to see...can't figure out how to put it on here. Josh did an AWESOME job!!

Malakai's Biggest Fan!!

Albert Pujols stance...

Well, I think this is enough for one post. Stay tuned for our July vacation, then that will be it for my catching up. It's all about the present!

XOXO,

Miller

$#%*(@

2011-05-19T10:58:00.004-05:00

I never would have thought that before we had kids, I would be the one always "slipping" with the foul language in front of the kids! I mean seriously, I was Queen of not-slipping! I am 30 years old and can probably count on 1 hand how many curse words my dad has heard come out of my mouth!! Half of those were probably me quoting someone!

However, as a parent, I just gave up! Wanna know why?! Words that don't even count as curses are suddenly off limits too.

Like "stupid." And "crap."

This wasn't really an issue with Malakai. We told him not to say certain words and he didn't say them...EVER! In fact, he will let someone know when they do say a word that is on the off-limits list. Hence him telling my dad just last night..."Oh Poppie! You just said the 'SH' word!!" It took my dad a minute to realize he was referring to "Shut Up!"

Now Leila...she is like a freaking mocking bird!! And...it doesn't matter if we tell her not to say it, if she hears us saying it, she will repeat it! ESPECIALLY if she knows it is on the "naughty" word list. The other day, I was having a conversation with Josh and referred to something as "stupid crap". We were in the car at the time, the kids strapped safely into their car seats behind us. Leila was playing with her V-Reader – seemingly oblivious to our conversation – and Malakai had his nose stuck in his DS.

As I said it I actually gave myself a little mental pat on the back for cleaning up my language and not swearing.

And then I heard the tiny little voice from behind me:

"Stupid crap."

Josh, who was driving, gave me his when-will-you-ever-learn look and choked back a laugh.

"Leila, we don't say that" he said sternly.

Come on, seriously?? Is nothing sacred? I refuse to change my whole vocabulary to include "oh fudge," and "Honest to Pete" and "Gosh Golly Gee" when I'm really pissed off?

I want to be a good parent, but I don't want to turn into Ned Flanders or find some secret hideaway to run to when I really need to curse. Especially when there is no secret hideaway available when I am driving and my road-rage releases itself.

At the same time I don't want my kids to be the ones cursing their little friends out on the playground.

What do you do? Do you curse in front of your kids? Have you changed your entire vocabulary? Do you spell naughty words? Please, enlighten me :)

XOXO,
Miller

Bandits Baseball...Holla!

2011-04-14T20:29:00.004-05:00

Baseball is in the air! This family is LOVIN it and we can't get enough! Malakai is playing on 2 teams this summer. One that Josh is coaching...The Kirkwood Bandits (machine pitch) and he is also playing in the CYC league for St. Paul. The Bandits have been meeting at the batting cages every Sunday for practice since Octoberish. Those sweet little 6yo boys have put their hearts and souls into it as they learn the All-American Sport of baseball. The amount of growth I have seen in them is just amazing! If Josh could support his family by coaching little league baseball, it would definitely be his full-time job. He loves it! Not to mention the fact that he is AMAZING at it! I can't go with out saying that the other coaches on the team, Paul and John complete the coaching staff and are also fabulous! All of their hard work paid off last night as they had their first game of the season. Thanks to Chuck's Boots they are sporting some pretty awesome uniforms! Good thing they had the skills to fit the professional look :) The won 12-2!! We are really looking forward to see what the rest of the season has in store for us. It is a great group of boys and a fabulous group of parents! I can't think of a better way to spend the wonderful Summer evenings than at the ballpark with great friends and great fun!

Leila is also playing ball this year. She doesn't start till next week, but I can't wait to fill you in on her! The girl has some mad skill!

Till next time...

XOXO,

How cute...

2011-04-04T23:17:00.003-05:00

Are these shoes??!!! OMG! And they have FINALLY went on sale @ one of my favorite stores Anthropologie!! Even though I have to dress up for work, they are pretty flexible on the shoes as long as they are "dressy" I REALLY want these! What do you think? Should I cave?

XOXO,

Snow Fabulous

2011-03-30T22:47:00.004-05:00

Well, I'm not very happy about it, but we had our typical March snow...AGAIN...this year. I don't know about you, but when we hit March, I DON'T WANT SNOW! I want Spring!! I want flowers and birds chirping. I want sunshine and the ability to wear a t-shirt outside. We have already had daylight savings, so it just seems right to NOT have to deal with snow.

However, last weekend we had snow. It was very short-lived which is okay by me, but explaining to a 3 year old why Frosty only "lived" for a few short hours was not very fun. She seems to finally be content with the fact that he went home to Winter Wonderland to be with his family and will join us again next year. If he comes back before then, I've got nothin! So, I just wanted to share a few pics of our March snow :)

Josh doing all the work!

While Leila Swings....

Love my boys! Had to hurry...it was melting fast! Not big on the cold, but she is always ready to smile!

Kissing the boo-boo away...

I helped! A little....

The final project!

XOXO,

Canvas prints on a budget...

2011-03-03T19:24:00.007-06:00

I love the way canvas photos look! They are gorgeous! Let's be realistic though...they cost a fortune! If your anything like me, I drool over the Pottery Barn catalogues and the gorgeous canvas collages that fill the pages. Jealous that I don't have one of my own. So, I went searching. How can I create one of these collages on a budget? There are MILLIONS of craft blogs out there, and after searching for awhile, I combined a few ideas.

This is the semi-final result...

Supplies:

*several large print images - As most of you know, I have a very good friend who just happens to be the owner of Spirits Breeze Photography who so graciously took and ordered mine for me. If your not as lucky, you could also use SmugMug for printing - they are amazing! Don't skimp on photo printing if you are going large format. Go big or go home, that's my motto!

*layout of what you want your design to be

*large pieces of custom cut insulation foam

*enough inexpensive black fabric to "wrap" each of the pieces of foam

*spray adhesive

*staples and duct tape

*adhesive Velcro

*level and ruler

Okay, here we go...

Josh and I went to Lowes to find some inexpensive insulation foam. Some people say that the employees will cut the sizes you need, but this was not the case for us. They sent us home with two huge sheets. Josh used a razor blade to cut the sizes I had written down for him.

Once Josh cut all the pieces, I layed out the photos to make sure the fit was right...

Next up was to give the foam a canvas-y look. It was suggested NOT to try and paint the foam edges black because it would warp the foam. So, the next best thing...wrap them in inexpensive black fabric. Sort of like a present...The only part of this fabric that will show is the edge. I wanted it to sort of blend into the background but still pop on the wall.

Here I am stapling the fabric to the foam. That was easy. Notice that is a plain stapler.

I just wrapped it like a present, doing my best to insure that I got the sharpest corners possible.

I then decided to use some good old fashioned duct tape just to further secure the staples. Elegant - no. Sturdy - yes.

Next step - I sprayed heavy duty adhesive spray onto the front of each "canvas". I don't have a picture of it. But I just placed each print onto the sticky canvas and rubbed it with a very soft cloth (my t-shirt) to get it to adhere. This was really easy, too.

I forgot to take a picture of my complete, laid out design. The biggest photo I used was a 20X24. I also had a 10X20, 16X20, 20X20, a couple 8X8's and 4X6's.

Here are the large ones done!! They turned out pretty well! I can't wait to get them all done and hung on our wall!!

And...I had an audience the ENTIRE time! Bella thought she would help press the photos...

If I were to do anything different, I would probably get a little bit thicker foam, and a heavier duty spray adhesive :)

XOXO,

My Leave of Absence is Over...

2011-03-01T08:00:00.000-06:00

2 months! I took 2 months off from my blog! A lot has been going on in my life and I really just needed to take some time to re-evaluate my priorities. I have been struggling. Struggling with the balance of life, family, career, running a household, and finding time for myself. As of lately, I have been craving at least 5 extra hours a day. I have neglected my friendships and it makes me sad. I don't have a ton of friends, but the ones I have mean the world to me and they are amazing! For so long I was in the mindset of trying to be everything to everyone—and doing a stellar job while I'm at it—that I didn't have a spare second to plug into my own needs or desires. So, through these past couple months, I have learned the following:

a. Accept imperfection

b. Share responsibility, and let go of the need to always be in control.

c. Choose my priorities

d. Open my mind to alternative ways of running things

e. Trust myself

This doesn't mean I'm not still struggling, because I am. But the above has helped the struggling become more of a friend than a foe.

So, for this Ten on Tuesday list, I am going to post 10 pictures of what you all have missed in the past few months. I hope to back date some blogs, so I will have them documented, however, I'm not promising anything. It's a fresh start from here on out :)

1. My baby turned 6! I can't believe it!! 6 sounds so old! He is such a perfect gentleman and he amazes me every day!

2. Christmas Pageants!! We had two in one week and they both did a fabulous job! Josh and I giggled the whole time at their cuteness :)

3. Christmas! We had a beautiful white Christmas. As always we missed spending it with our family, but we have started embracing our own traditions....just the four of us. It was a great day of lounging, playing with new toys, a movie, and dinner at IHOP.

4. New Years at the Meyers! This has become another tradition and it is always a good time for everyone! The kids celebrate at 9:00 and we are home in time to put them to bed and celebrate with each other at Midnight! This year was a little crazy since the day started out at 65 degrees and a tornado swept through the town of Fenton, where we live. Both the kids' schools were hit. It is such a blessing that they were not there! Definitely a New Years we will never forget!!

5. Lots of Soccer! After about 5 sessions of soccer, Malakai has finally picked up an understanding of the game and stopped flying around the field like an airplane. He has even began scoring goals! It is awesome to watch his growth in the sport :) Leila is quite the fan of his also!!

6. Crafts! We have had a FREEZING weather! Which means we have had to be creative with the indoor activities. Leila could do crafts 24 hrs a day!

7. A weekend with Baby Liam!! Kaci, Mallory, Liam, Abbie, and Shelby came down for a weekend and we had such a good time! I loved having so much family around for an entire weekend! My kids LOVE Liam and they were very sad to see him go!

8. Grandparents Day! Malakai had Grandparents Day at school! Unfortunately there was horrible weather across the state of Missouri and Maw Maw Miller was unable to make it. We were lucky enough that Poppy came down the beginning of the week so the nasty weather wasn't an issue.

9. P90X! Josh and I are on day 27 of P90X! It has SUCKED every step of the way! I think our main motivation is that we have yet to personally meet anyone who has completed the 90 days. Everyone we know owns it though. I know why they have never finished! An hour a day is A LOT! We get up at 5am...we didn't even talk for the entire first week because we were both so crabby. Along with the workout we are doing the diet and it has been a HUGE change! Protein Shakes, recovery drinks...we go through 4 jugs of egg-whites a week. It's brutal! But, we vowed to do it together, and we are committed to finishing. No pictures yet...the day 1 pics are horrible! If the day 30, 60, or 90 turn out amazing, then I will post. Ha Ha!

10. I guess that is about it...I look forward to being back in the game of blogging. I have missed catching up on what has been going on in the lives of all my blog family!

XOXO,

Through the eyes of a child...

2010-12-30T12:23:00.000-06:00

I often tell myself that I need to take a step back and look at life and the events within it, like a child does. That innocence, cleanliness, and pure thought process they have is priceless.

As most of you know, Malakai recently had a birthday. My baby turned 6. More to come on that later. Anyway, a few weeks before his party, he was taking a shower, and I heard him calling for me. I went in there and he says "Mom, don't forget to send an invitation to Connor. Do you know the address to Heaven?" Immediately, my heart sunk. All the times Josh and I wonder if how or what he thinks about the whole situation, then he says something like that. Out of the clear blue. I mean, he talks about Connor all the time, and he prays to him every evening, and every evening he asks him to make sure he watches over Charleen, Lonnie, and Anna (Connor's parents and sister). But the fact that he is such at peace with the loss of his best-friend just melts my heart. It's like he doesn't even question it...he accepts where Connor is.

So, after some discussion, we decided we were going to attach a birthday invitation to a balloon and release it to Connor in Heaven. It was such a beautiful moment.

On the morning of Malakai's party, we got our first big snow of the season. I wasn't even awake before the emails and phone messages started with people that weren't going to be able to make it. Which I totally understood...I was just really emotional for some reason. Then I got a text message from one of my besties, Melissa, and she tells me "looks like the snow is Malakai's present from Connor." Duh! Why didn't I think of that! Of course it was!

It turned out being a great day, and Malakai is truly blessed with all the people he has that care about him in his life.

More to come regarding birthday celebrations...I want to spread them out :)

XOXO,

Fall Fun

2010-12-01T09:00:00.000-06:00

I realize it is almost Christmas, however, I couldn't not do a post about our annual trip to the pumpkin patch. We managed to fit it in before I left for Boston.

XOXO,

My Christmas List

2010-11-30T08:00:00.000-06:00

I enjoyed so much reading my friends' Christmas lists, that I thought I would create one of my own. Some practical, some not so practical...but it's my list and I can put on it what I wish. I suck at buying things for myself! Josh and I don't even exchange gifts...we just fill a stocking for each other. The point is not to spend a lot of money, but make it thoughtful...he just loves it ;)

1. A kindle...or any e-reader. I am sure I am the only person on the planet who doesn't have one of these, I just can't bring myself to spend the money. I don't mind books...I just think it would be more convenient.

2. A curling Rod...When I was in Boston, one of the girls' did a demo of this thing in class and it was amazing! Love it!

3. My nephew Alex to know who I am and to know his cousins...they just adore him!

4. New Sunglasses! My Ed Hardy's finally broke...but I can't find any I "love" yet :( Actually, I am just waiting on Colleen to pick my next pair out for me since she did such a fabulous job on the last 2...

5. A Cricut. Again, something I have wanted forever...

6. Ballroom dancing lessons

7. A tropical vacation with just Josh

8. A $1000 gift certificate to Sephora...I need everything!

9. Josh to spend a week in my shoes at work. I don't think he really has a clue as to what I do all day. I think he would find it interesting :)

10. Plastic Surgery...the end.

XOXO,

Thankful and Blessed

2010-11-28T12:19:00.005-06:00

Two words I have thought a lot about lately. I can honestly say that I am so thankful for everyone and everything in my life and I couldn't be any more blessed. Even with a random, very short-lived stomach bug sweeping through the house, affecting us and our guests at different times, we still had a perfect holiday.

Usually Josh and I go to Kansas City for Thanksgiving, especially since we don't go home for Christmas. However, things got flipped around this year and my dad, Lisa, Kiera, Grandma and Grandpa ended up coming to St. Louis. All stayed at our house, and I was in heaven hosting. Everyone got here Wednesday night and we spent the evening just catching up. My grandpa and I made a big breakfast Thursday and none of us got out of our PJ's ALL day. I ordered our dinner from Dierbergs, but this did not mean NO work. I still had to heat everything up ;) Dinner was DELICIOUS!! I would HIGHLY recommend it. As much as I love to cook, I did not want to spend ALL day in the kitchen and miss out on the opportunity to visit with family whom I don't see enough as it is. We ended the evening with some board games and wine next to the fire. It was devine.

After a full day of looking through ads, there was NOTHING that I needed or wanted that was worth fighting for this year. However, Lisa, Grandma, and I still got up and got to Target when it opened. By the time we got in there, the line to check out was FOREVER long and there was no way I was standing in it. So, we went to the cafe, ordered a coffee, and people-watched for over an hour. Very entertaining! We never did buy anything...I did do some online shopping that evening.

Even though we were missing a lot of family this year, having a few around is better than none. I don't have ANY pictures to share, so I'm hoping that Lisa will have a few. I have been AWFUL with picture taking lately! Here are a few...just not from this weekend.

I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!

Just a fare warning, you are going to see some pretty OLD blogs pretty soon. I still have some updating to do from September and October, that I don't want to be left out of my blog book :)

XOXO,

Miller

It's that time of year...

2010-11-16T13:03:00.006-06:00

You know what I'm talking about! I know all of you are thinking about what you are going to do for your Christmas/Holiday cards this year. Were you able to capture that perfect picture? Are you running around taking pictures like a mad woman/man still trying to get that perfect picture?

The question is...what do you do once you get it? There are a TON of photo sites available to get your adorable cards from. I don't know about you, but I go for the WOW factor. I want people to open my Holiday Card and say "OMG! How stinking cute!" or "How freakin adorable!" There is one site that I feel delivers these type of cards and that would be....drumroll please....

The one and only SHUTTERFLY!!! I have been uploading my pictures to shutterfly for about 6 years now. I have ordered everything from photobooks, to thank-you cards to t-shirts!

Take a look at some of the cards from Miller Family History :) You can pick your own for 2010 by clicking right HERE!!!!

No sneak peak for what I have chosen this year...you will just have to wait till you receive yours through snail mail :)

I will tell you though, that I will also be getting some of the ADORABLE gift tags. There are so many designs to choose from and they add a nice personal touch to your gifts. You can find all the options Shutterfly has to offer right HERE!!!! These are a few of my favorites :)

And last, but definitely not least, why not get some of your gift shopping out of the way while you are visiting shutterfly.com??!!! People SWEAR that the best gifts that they ever receive are THESE photo calendars! They are perfect for grandparents and out-of-town relatives! I usually follow the same rule every year. I will make a 2011 calendar and the January picture will have been taken in Jan 2010, the Feb picture will have been taken in Feb 2010 and so on. That way it is easy to see how the kids have grown throughout the year :)

This year I plan on trying the Calendar Poster so J can hang it in his office :)

So head on over to http://www.shuttefly.com/ and check out all the fabulous gifts they have to offer. Remember, photos last a lifetime!!

If you are interested in getting 50 free photo cards, just check out THIS LINK!

XOXO,

Miller

Menu Plan Monday

2010-11-08T09:00:00.000-06:00

I'm Baaaaaack! Yay! I actually missed cooking while I was gone...what is wrong with me? Here is my menu for the week. As always I am going for a quick/easy menu week since it is filled with activities. I am linked to http://www.orgjunkie.com/

Monday: Beef and Bean Taco Casserole

Tuesday: Chicken and Broccoli Fettucini Alfredo

Wednesday: Alphabet Pot Roast
Carrots
Potatoes

Thursday: Breakfast for Dinner
Surprise Pancakes
Crockpot Apples
Sausage Links

Friday: Volleyball Night...dinner out :)

Saturday: Upside down Pizza Casserole

1.5 lbs lean ground beef

1 (15 oz) can Italian-style tomato sauce

1.5 C shredded Mozzarella Cheese

1 (10 oz) pkg refrigerated biscuits

Preheat oven to 400 degrees. In a large skillet, cook ground beef until brown; drain. Stir in tomato sauce; heat through. Transfer mixture to a 2-quart rectangular baking dish. Sprinkle with cheese. Flatten each biscuit with your hand; arrange biscuits on top of cheese. Bake for 15-17 minutes or until biscuits are golden. Yields 5 servings.

Sunday: Kid Friendly Orange Chicken

Rice

I hope everyone has a great week!!

XOXO,

Miller

Secrets of Happy Moms?

2010-10-28T10:38:00.003-05:00

I have to say that I have learned a lot since I became a mother 5 1/2 years ago. One of the biggest things I have learned is not to sweat the small stuff! Life is way too short. I pick my battles, when something doesn't go as planned, I try not let it ruin my day. If Leila wants to wear her tutu and rain boots to Malakai's soccer game (which she did last weekend) whatever. Who is it hurting? It makes her happy and it isn't going against any moral parenting beliefs I have, so be it. If Josh forgets to tell me he has to work late, when I am expecting him to be somewhere with us that evening...it sucks! But, does anyone really benefit from me being so pissed about it I can't even enjoy an evening with my children, who are not stupid and will be totally effected by the fact I am in a bad mood. Am I still guilty of this...yes? However, I am aware of it now and do a much better job of putting myself in check.

I learned throughout the years, and I've said it many times before, that I (the mother) set the mood for the entire house. That's a lot of pressure for one person!! But it is so true...If I am unhappy, grouchy, annoyed, etc. so will the rest of my house. Now this doesn't mean I'm never allowed to feel like this, but I just make a more conscience effort of evaluating the reason that is making me feel this way and asking myself...is it really worth it?

I will be the first one to say that I am FAR from perfect....what is perfect when it comes to parenting anyway? I think one of the biggest steps I have taken is I have stopped comparing myself to others. Who cares! My social anxiety still has A LOT of work to be done on it....lol!! I have HORRIBLE OCD when it comes to things being done a certain way which constantly interferes with my parenting. What can I say, I'm a constant work in progress...

What sparked this? I came across an article written by YouRthemom.com about the secrets of happy moms that I would like to share with you below. She makes some great points!! It kind of annoys me how she uses the term "Smart Mom" but oh well :)

I've added a few of my own little comments along the way....

Have you ever noticed how some Moms seem to be very contented and confident in their role as Mothers, and others seem chronically stressed and approaching burnout? Why are some Moms unflappable and able to keep their sense of humor, while others overreact to the slightest stressors in their day?

I’m currently observing and interviewing these happy Moms as I conduct research for an upcoming book. While all Moms are different, these women usually have several of the following traits in common.

1) They keep it simple.

I know one Mom who grocery shops every two weeks and buys the exact same thing every time to prepare the same menu of 14 dinners. Why does she do this? She’s picked the family’s favorite meals for her menu to save herself time and arguments at the dinner table. Anyone with kids knows they like to eat the same things over and over! This Mom has decided not to reinvent the wheel twice a month. This is just one example of keeping it simple.

2) They teach their kids to be independent.

This doesn’t mean they leave them to their own devices all day. But a smart Mom knows that a 2 year old can put a dish in the dishwasher, a 4 year old can prepare his own peanut butter and jelly sandwich, and a 7 year old can sweep a floor (albeit imperfectly!). Call it “outsourcing” for Moms.

Ummm, the thought of Malakai making his own sandwich gives me anxiety...definitely could work on this step...I totally have the thought of it is easier if I just do it....probably why he can't tie his shoes ;)

3) They drop the SuperMom complex.

Not sweating the small stuff seems to be a common trait of happy Moms. They learn to pick their battles. Getting buckled into a car seat? Not negotiable. Pink paisley pants with the orange plaid shirt? Fashion creativity.

Happy Moms also realize that being an awesome Mom doesn’t mean being a perfect Mom. ‘Nuff said.

4) They can often be overheard repeating the phrase “This too shall pass”.

It doesn’t mean that bothersome behavior in kids should be overlooked, for discipline is a huge time saver in the end. It means that Moms realize that children are…well, uncivilized creatures, and that much uncivilized behavior will simply go away on its own as the child matures. Smart Moms are also keenly aware of their child’s development and don’t expect more of them than they are able to give.

Doesn't really make a 2 year old temper tantrum in the middle of Target any more easier to get through...

5) Smart Moms take care of themselves.

They don’t blame the baby for their extra weight when the baby in question is potty trained! They put emphasis on good nutrition, avoiding too much by way of stimulants (caffeine, sugar), they get adequate rest, and daily exercise. They realize that you can’t pour from an empty bucket.

I FAIL...at least the caffeine part...and the adequate rest part...I guess I have the exercise going for me :)

6) They live in the moment.

Happy Moms realize that the days are long but the years short. It’s not that they are impervious to stress, it’s that they have learned to lower their expectations and be in the moment when things get difficult. When your toddler is puking all over the house, this is not the time to reorganize the hall closet. A sick day then turns into a time to create sweet memories of hours spent reading and cuddling on the couch.

Work in progress...

7) They don’t worry about what others think.

Whether it’s the disapproving glare from the old lady in the checkout line, the Mother in law who is convinced you’re starving the baby by breastfeeding, or the Pediatrician whose medical advice strays into parenting advice, happy Moms learn not to give too much weight to the opinions of those who don’t live in their home.

In other words, they trust their instincts.

Whether it’s taking the baby to bed with them so they can get more sleep or taking a bullied child out of public school, smart Moms know that they are the expert of their own babies.

9) Happy Moms have “something else”

It may be a part time home based business or a hobby like belly dancing. These Moms know that some day their babies will fly the coop, and they make sure they have a passion that will give them purpose when that happens.

I'm pretty good at this one...

So, I would LOVE to hear your opinions :)

XOXO,
Miller

Wonderful Weekend + Small Confession

2010-10-25T18:12:00.004-05:00

What a fabulous 36hrs I had at home this past weekend! I didn't turn my cell-phone on and I just soaked up the time with Josh and my babies. My mom is also in town, so I even got to squeeze in some quality time with her.

Unfortunately, Josh had to work ALL day on Saturday, but the rest of us had a perfect day filled with soccer, gorgeous weather, eating dinner on the deck, and playing outside. When Josh got off, we all spent the evening with my fabulous friend Charlene and her beautiful daughter Anna (who for a 2nd grader had amazing patience with Leila) at the St. Paul Trunk or Treat. We all had such a great time! I promise there will be pictures to add once I get back in town.

Now for my confession....

I love business travel. Now, I’m lucky that my need to travel for business is very rare. In fact, once or twice a year is about all it calls for. Which is why I don't feel AS guilty for the need to confess.

When I am traveling on company business, I’m not a mommy. I am Karissa. I am a highly-respected colleague. I am a contributor to a team. I am a problem-solver, a solution provider, and a subject matter expert. I feel like I’m Super-Woman instead of Super-Mom.

The “Mom” in me is put on the shelf for a few days. I don’t have to juggle. I don’t have to worry about what’s for dinner. I don’t have to wipe any butts. Business travel is a luxurious break from my day-to-day reality.

I can have room service every night. I can eat cheesecake for dinner and drink a little more than I should — and not have to worry that a crazy 2 and 5 year old will be waking me before the sun rises.

I can sleep for only 5 hours each night but feel more rested than when I sleep for 7.5 at home.

The airport doesn't stress me out and my anxiety levels while traveling are at an all-time low. I don't have to worry about anyone but myself, I am on no ones schedule but my own. It’s so nice to only be worried about leaving enough time to drop off the rental car.

When I flew in on Friday night, I was greeted by HUGE smiles and two children sprinting towards me for a big bear-hug. For a split-second, I think that maybe I should travel more so that I get a greeting that like more often.

As much as I love being away on business travel, nothing beats the feeling of coming home.

XOXO,

Miller

EDIT/UPDATE: MAY HAVE TO TAKE THE ABOVE BACK...JUST EVACUATED FOR AN HOUR FOR THE FIRE ALARM!!! GOOD THING IT ISN'T FREEZING COLD!

Ten on Tuesday

2010-10-19T17:24:00.011-05:00

10 things I did in Boston....

1. Rode the Subway for the first time EVER!!

2. Toured Harvard! This wasn't really on the top the list of things to do, but everyone insisted that we needed to do it. I am SO glad we did! There were so many interesting facts regarding the campus and the buildings. SUPER COOL!

3. Visited and ate at Cheers! There are two locations in Boston. We ate at one and drank a beer at the other.

4. Partially walked the Freedom Trail. Melissa did the entire Freedom Trail on Friday while I was in class. However, I did see it and walked along it for a little bit while headed to other places. I think that counts :)

5. Sat at the bar and ate oysters at The Union Oyster House. This restaurant is known as the OLDEST restaurant in continuous service in the US! We became friends with the workers at the Raw Bar who were very entertaining! Jimmy is the one shown below. Melissa got a good picture of them together, but I didn't so I pulled this one off the web :)

6. Walked into The Bell in Hand Tavern. We didn't stay here long because it was CRAZY busy and filled with 21 year olds. We wanted to see it though. The Bell in Hand is the oldest, continuously, operating Tavern! Daniel Webster, Paul Revere, and William McKinley were known to frequently visit the tavern and the only time it ever closed was during Prohibition!!

7. Next stop...The Green Dragon. Established in 1654 The Green Dragon was a favorite haunt of Paul Revere and John Hancock (who’s brother lived next door!).

8. Last but not least, Durty Nelly's. This place wasn't even on our list, but our friends at the Oyster House recommended we stop by there. So glad we did! It was filled with locals and was such a quaint little bar. On the website is says "Overflowing with Irish charm and hospitality, this is just the place to take a break from a hectic day or spend the night with good friends passing away the hours in great conversation." This describes it PERFECTLY!

9. SALEM!!!!!! So cool!! Obviously we couldn't have asked for a better time of year to be there. The place was just jumping! We walked the cute cobblestone streets and went in all the witch-craft shops. The street performers were super-cool as well. Again, no pics since I can't get them off my camera :(

10. The Salem Witch Museum. This gave us a lot of history on the witch trials. Pretty cool!

All in all, it was a fabulous weekend!!! Thanks Melissa!

XOXO,

Miller

I'm not even sure what the date is...

2010-10-18T20:12:00.005-05:00

I am SOOOOOO tired!! Which means, this blog is probably going to lack a lot of creative writing. I hope to replace it with pictures :)

I had a GREAT weekend discovering Boston this past weekend with my girlfriend Melissa. I will update you on those events with my Ten on Tuesday tomorrow....ooohhh, the anticipation. Ha Ha...not really, most of you saw a lot of the pics on facebook.

Here are some pics of the kiddos and their adventures throughout the week :)

May the force be with you....

Aunt/Grandma Suzy with all the kids while the mom's drink Margaritas...thank goodness for DS!

Lego Dragon...

Hogwarts...

Malakai and Poppy

Stunt Car Show...

Notice the earplugs...good thinking Tutu

Leila at the Zoo..

They built a Halloween Candy House...

XOXO,

Miller

Day 5...a little late

2010-10-15T10:55:00.005-05:00

My days are filled with classes! When I'm not at class, I am still working! It's been crazy, but I am SO looking forward to the weekend!

My girlfriend Melissa flew in today, and we are SO ready to explore Boston! Tonight was pretty quiet since she had quite the adventure. Her flight left STL at 6:15am, she got to Boston and the luggage was backed up so she missed her reserved ride to the hotel!!! So, what does she do? Hops on the Silver Bus, takes it to the Commuter Rail, and many hours later she ended up at the correct station in Westborough. I picked her up when I got out of class and there she was...sitting outside the station with her luggage, reading Harry Potter :) Totally chill!!! We both agree that when you have kids, traveling without them is a BREEZE!!! When your on no one elses schedule but your own, your golden.

Since she had a long day of traveling, we went to dinner and headed back to the hotel for some wine and Greys Anatomy.

Malakai's flight to Orlando was this morning and he made it safe and sound. My mother-in-law also made it to St. Louis and Leila is having a GRAND time with her.

Here are some pics I have received on my phone today :)

Orlando or Bust!

Amazed by the Clouds :)

Lego Land!

She is Crazy!

Till next time!

XOXO,

Miller

Boston, Day 4

2010-10-13T19:57:00.004-05:00

Why does it seem like I am just as tired in the mornings here as I am at home? I swear. I seriously thought I would come here and it would be so easy to get up in the mornings because I wouldn't be as exhausted as I am at home. NOT TRUE! Regardless, getting up in the morning is not easy! Not to mention, there is nothing like your own bed. That's for sure!

I ventured out tonight with a couple of the girls in class and went to dinner at Tavolino. It was fabulous!! I had the Salmon which was to die for and a spectacular Chocolate Rasberry Martini. The conversation was nice and it felt good to get away from the hotel for an evening. We are all in the same situation which makes it really easy to relate to.

Malakai made it to Kansas City this evening. They are leaving for Orlando in the morning and he is beyond excited!! He can not wait to see Mickey and everything else. He has strict instructions from Leila to by her a Belle doll, it should be interesting what he comes home with. He is also going on a fishing excursion with my dad and the other "men" on the trip which he is very excited about as well. I can't wait to hear about all his adventures. One of the things I love about the private school he goes to is the close-knit community. People seem to truly care about everyone and it is such a nice feeling. Well today, his class did a blessing for him to have safe travels while he is gone. When I asked him what the blessing entailed, he said everyone in the class put their hand on him and Mrs. Morrow "talked." SO CUTE!!!

No Skype call tonight, J is still driving back from dropping off Malakai. He has his mom with him now, so he should have a pretty smooth week with all of her help. Leila truly adores her Ma Ma so I am sure they will have an amazing time.

Till tomorrow friends!

"Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are." - Bernice Johnson Reagon

XOXO,
Miller

Tres...

2010-10-12T19:40:00.004-05:00

Not a lot to update everyone on today. I am enjoying a nice evening in with a bottle of wine, work, and Glee. Not necessarily in that order :)

One of my biggest challenges while being here is TV issues. NO TIVO!! I can't remember the last time I had to be worried about being on a specific channel at a specific time so I don't miss an episode. And watching commercials...OMG!!! They are torture!!! Josh and I worked out a plan that I was going to try and watch what I could and he would save the rest for me on Tivo. Seems to be working out pretty well :)

I find it really amusing that Josh picked Malakai up from Kids Club (After school program) today and they had to ask for his ID. I am the one that ALWAYS picks him up...the only reason he is there 3 days a week is because J works late, therefore I pick him up at 5. Every other day, J picks him up at 3:00 from school, so the Kids Club teachers don't see his charming face that often.

Malakai got in trouble at school today. Apparently him and a good friend got into an argument because they never play with each other at recess. Said friend plays soccer and Malakai plays Mario and Luigi. Well I guess it turned into a pretty heated 5 year old argument and a note got passed around saying "Who do you like more? Malakai or said friend?" Seriously!!! In Kindergarten? Not to mention....BOYS!

Other than that, not a whole lot going on. J sounded a little worn out when I talked to him tonight. He had a full day of work, dance, and the task of packing Malakai for a week in Florida. He is a champ though :)

That's all for tonight friends. Hope everyone is having a blessed week! I leave you with our nightly skype picture and a pic of Leila before dance :)

XOXO,

Miller

Boston...Day 2

2010-10-11T18:09:00.003-05:00

Oh, let the training begin! Today was my first day of training (the actual reason I am here). We are talking 9-5, Monday thru Friday. After talking with people who have been through this process before, your experience comes down to two things, 1) your instructor and 2) your class. On a good note, my instructor seems really cool! The class...not so bad. You know how you always have those one or two people that talk and you constantly ask yourself how they EVER made it in the world? COME ON!!!! Let the poor instructor talk for two minutes before you rudely interrupt him with some stupid question! I realize there are supposed to be NO stupid questions, but in the healthcare field, "What is an ICD?" is a STUPID question!!!

On a positive note...they have MONSTER energy drinks in the vending machine for $1.25!!! It's the little things in life people.

I ended up calling my IT guy on lunch today because I couldn't get Skype to work on my laptop and I was freaking out! Thank goodness he got things figured out for me and I was able to get everything working. The thought of not being able to video chat was freaking me out!

I did't sleep very well last night. Not sure if it was the bed or lack of Josh in it, but either way, I hope it gets better. I ventured to the gym in the hotel this evening. Such an exciting day!!! Ha ha!

I leave you with a snapshot of the fam I took while we were skyping tonight :)

XOXO,

Miller

Boston...Day 1

2010-10-10T18:49:00.003-05:00

Well, I made it! For those of you that don't know, I am spending some time in Boston for work. And by "some time" I mean like....3 weeks! I do get to come home for a weekend though, so that will be nice. It was a difficult choice for me on whether or not to go through with it, and a much easier choice for Josh. He never hesitated, told me to go for it. That in the huge picture of life, three weeks is nothing and is a great move for my career. I love the fact that I am married to someone so supportive of me being a working mom. Obviously the guilt is still there, but when I am surrounded by such amazing people, it definitely helps.

I think he might actually have it easier while I am gone than when I am there! My fabulous mother-in-law is coming for a week and then my fabulous mom is coming for a week. The kids absolutely ADORE them so I am hoping they will be side-tracked from the fact that mommy isn't home...hoping :) Then, my fabulous dad and step-mom will be taking Malakai to Disney World for a week during this time as well. Friends have even offered to bring them dinner on some nights...Seriously?! We truly have amazing friends! Everyone is going to be super busy, especially Josh, working and running kids to soccer, dance, etc. the time will hopefully fly by!

So, the plan is to blog every day regarding this adventure. Josh and I haven't spent a significant time apart since I was in college. I am even hoping I can get him to log on here and update my blog with the kids' adventures on that particular day. Technology is so amazing these days! Can't wait to skype and talk to my babies every night before they go to bed...

I just flew in this afternoon and so far smooth sailing. My anxiety only hit the roof once and that was driving from the airport to the hotel. Thank goodness for GPS!!!! I am settled into the hotel, made a Walmart run to stack up on some groceries, and now I am getting ready to get lost in a book. It sounds great....for a few days! Not sure how nice it's gonna be in the long run.

Till tomorrow faithful readers....we will see what adventures are to come!

XOXO,

Miller

Ten On Tuesday

2010-09-14T10:12:00.004-05:00

1. We have had a lot going on the last few weeks and I just want to take this opportunity to thank all of the people that have been there for Josh and I and the kids during it all! Everyone has offered their help in some way, shape, or form. Thank you to Autumn and Jimmy for really stepping in, your thoughtfulness and help has been SO appreciated. I am so lucky to have one of my besties as my neighbor as well! I bet you never thought we would be this high maintenance! Ha Ha! It's not easy living somewhere and not having a single family member around. Especially going through difficult times. Autumn and Jimmy dropped everything to babysit on several occasions, brought ungodly amounts of ice cream over, made early morning runs to the store to get the kids balloons that they had talked about the previous evening, played endless hours of WII with Malakai, let Leila paint nails, the list just goes on and on. There are no words that could express how much we appreciate them!!

2. Which leads me to Josh and our all night trip at the ER. To make a long story short, we were watching a movie and he started having stabbing pain in his upper abdomen. After HOURS at the ER, it was assumed that he was having issues with his Gallbladder. However, after a HIDA scan and more blood work, his gallbladder has turned out fine. He is feeling a little better, but has to be really careful with what he eats. I think I am still going to make him get an EGD to see if maybe there is something going on with reflux/GERD.

3. I can't believe the time has come for me to turn 30! I really am trying to embrace this new chapter of my life. If you had asked me 15 years ago, where I wanted to be when I was 30, I think I have surpassed my expectations. I need to be proud of where I am in life. I have met and married my soul mate, we have beautiful children, a beautiful home, a career that I actually enjoy, friendships that are irreplaceable, the list goes on. So CHEERS to turning 30!

4. I need to think of a special post to do on my bday. A list of 30 something? Any ideas?

5. A post will come with pics of Leila at dance. It is the cutest darn thing I have ever seen. She is one of the youngest in the class but you definitely can't tell size wise. She spent the first five minutes just standing there taking it all in, but then she participated fully! She is very excited to go back this week and wants to make sure everyday that all her loved ones are coming to watch her at her recital....IN JUNE!

6. We are painting! I will try to take some before and after pics. We are doing the loft and Leila's bedroom, then having someone do the rest of the main level. Leila is SO ready for her big girl bed and furniture. She asks everyday. The problem is, I can't decide on bedding!!! It's SO hard. I have to stick with something that will go with brown because that is the color of her huge rocker/chair that she loves, but I want bright colors to go with it. Here are some I am looking at, PLEASE give me your opinion!!! This is so tough!!

My Favorite

7. I have tried to make it a point to tell Josh one thing he does each week, rather large or small that I appreciate. It's so easy to fall into a routine and overlook the little things. I was giggling the other day because I am a thrower of things when I walk in the door. My mud room is a disaster! I kick my shoes off (on top of an already 3ft pile of shoes), throw my keys somewhere, pile my purses on top of the dryer, etc. However, every morning I never have to search for my keys. Every evening Josh takes my keys and puts them in the designated key holder. This is such a little thing that makes my mornings a whole lot LESS stressful! Thanks J!

8. Back to Autumn, she has me OBSESSED with a certain series of books. I am currently on book four of an 8 book series of The Black Dagger Brotherhood. There is nothing intellectual about these books. They are SO good though. Take Twilight and give it an R (or worse) rating and that is this series. SO GOOD and SO ADDICTING!

9. Chiefs are 1-0!!! Whoo Hoo!!

10. Anyone have any useful hints on washing white uniform shirts? Malakai gets SO dirty!! Help?

PS. I like to ask specific questions in my TonT because I like to get comments and I feel like if I ask questions people are more willing to leave a comment :)

XOXO,

Miller

Phobias

2010-09-09T20:35:00.002-05:00

If you follow my BFF Colleens blog, you would be familiar with the fact that she has a pretty odd phobia. To make a long story short, she has a phobia of people knocking on her door. Every time I read her crazy, hilarious stories about her fear for the doorbell to be rang, I always try to think about if I have any silly phobias.

Yes, I have an issue with deleting emails. In fact, some will call me an email hoarder. As of right now, I have 21,316 in my Yahoo! inbox and 14,195 in my hotmail inbox. But guess what? I can find something from years ago if needed, and I've had to do it before! This isn't really a phobia though, unless you would count being afraid of hitting the delete button.

What is a phobia?

pho·bi·a /ˈfoʊbiə/ Show Spelled
[foh-bee-uh]

–noun
a persistent, irrational fear of a specific object, activity, or situation that leads to a compelling desire to avoid it.

Why all this talk about phobias you ask? I recently discovered one of my own. That's right folks, I have a silly phobia. Guess what it is? I have a fear of checking my voicemail!!!!! This holds true for my cell phone voicemail and my work voicemail. Luckily at work I have a job where I am very seldom actually in my office, so people have learned to call my cell phone or send me an email. But when I see that red light on when I walk in, my heart starts racing and I have to talk myself in to checking it....sometimes 3 days later! I could have 19 or 20 messages on my cell phone before I get up the nerve to check my messages! Why is this? I have no idea!!! I don't have telemarketers calling, I don't have bill collectors calling (Lord knows I had enough of that in college), I don't have a number that previously belonged to someone else and no one got the memo. Most my messages are from my loving family or caring friends and sometimes I don't hear them for weeks after they are left.

There it is. You all learned something new about me :) Every now and then I like to share something with my handful of readers that they maybe didn't know. It makes me feel like we are bonding.

So, what is your silly phobia? I would love to hear!!

XOXO,

First Day of School!

2010-09-08T21:20:00.005-05:00

Better late than never. Just wanted to share a few pictures of Malakai's first day of Kindergarten. He is enjoying the year so far, at least from what I can get out of him. Most of the time his response when I ask him how his day was or what he learned he says "Good" or "I forgot." I have even started bribing him with 5 extra minutes of WII time if he will give me one detailed description of what he did that day! The Cardinals back pack (which I love) only lasted through the first day because a)it was huge and b)he insisted on having one that went on BOTH shoulders. Day two he asked me if I would just drop him off so he could walk in by himself :(

XOXO,

Menu Plan Monday

2010-08-30T11:15:00.004-05:00

School has started and we are trying to get back on our Planned Weekly Menus :)

Did you miss me? Ha Ha!

Monday: Sausage and Rice with biscuits

I don't even know where this recipe came from, but it has been made in my family for years and my kids LOVE it!!

2 boxes Uncle Ben's Chicken Flavor Rice

1lb ground sausage (we like it a little spicy)

1 can biscuits

Brown Sausage/drain

Cook Rice as Directed on the box

Mix Sausage and Rice together

Serve in a bowl with biscuits on the side

Tuesday: Fabulous Orange Chicken

Served with rice

Wednesday: Taco Night

Thursday: Breakfast for Dinner

Pancakes

Eggs

Bacon

Friday: Oven Baked Chimichangas

Rice

Beans

Saturday: Dinner Out!!!!

Sunday: Baked Ziti w/ Vodka Sauce

Salad

Texas Toast

XOXO,

Miller

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Reach for the sky!

2010-08-28T20:56:00.002-05:00

As most of you know, it has been an unforgettable week for the Miller family. On Tuesday morning, Malakai lost his best friend, Connor Simpson. Not only did he lose his best friend, a mom and dad lost their son, a sister lost her brother, and a community lost a very amazing little boy. Never in my life did I ever think that Josh and I would be having the conversations with Malakai that we had to have this week, at such a young age. I can't imagine how our dear friends Charleen and Lonnie are feeling right now, I have never lost a child. What I do know is that my heart has hurt in a way that it has never felt before, and the thought of it only being a fraction of what they are feeling right now is unmanageable.

We have been selling the orange Leukemia bracelet's at the St. Paul soccer tournament this weekend and I was asked to write a little something to go up on the board that we made for Connor, I would like to share that with you.

Connor’s Story

Connor Simpson, at 5 years old, was a ball of energy. From the moment his mother Charleen got him up in the morning, until his father Lonnie put him to bed at night, he was nonstop motion-- laughing, tearing around, and alternately playing and fighting with his older sister Anna. He had a passion for Mario and Luigi, Toy Story and his friendships. In other words, he was a lot like any other kid his age.

Over July 4th weekend, 2010, Connor was admitted to the hospital with a fever and back pain. After several tests, he was released to go home with a diagnosis of a tick-borne illness. He took his medication and was back to his normal self.

On July 17th while out shopping with his family, Connor started complaining again of back pain. After a call to the pediatrician, it was decided that Connor would be taken back to the hospital. He was admitted and on July 19th, Connor was diagnosed with acute lymphocytic leukemia. Otherwise known as ALL.

A three year treatment plan was immediately put into place. Connor spent almost 28 days in the hospital receiving round one of treatment. It was a tough few weeks but Connor was such a fighter. The smile he would put on his face could light up the entire room. Every week we were all updated with the good news that the “Bad Guys” in Connor’s body were slowly decreasing and Connor was released to go home on Friday, August 13th. Still very weak from the intense treatments, he was happy to be home and in his own bed, spending time with his mom, dad, and sister Anna.

A fever and a stomach virus put Connor back in the hospital on Saturday, August 21st. His numbers were low upon arrival, but slowly climbed back up. On Tuesday, August 24th, God decided it was time for Connor to grow his Angel wings and join him in heaven.

What would you do in 5 short years? Would you make them the most or hide from your fears? Our little Connor chose to live everyday with a smile and love to give. Though stricken with Leukemia he lived life like it had just begun. No matter how bad he might have felt, he always knew to make your heart melt. Living life to its fullest each day he awoke, he could make you smile every time he spoke. He filled the room with laughter and tears, and touched many lives in his 5 short years. He fought hard to beat the “ALL” he had, and would never complain of feeling bad. For someone so young, his heart was of Gold. You would never have known he was just 5 years old.

Our lives are all forever changed with the loss of sweet Connor. Just remember, Connor would always want you to “Reach for the sky” just like his good friend Woody.

XOXO,

Summer Lovin...

2010-08-17T20:16:00.004-05:00

The Miller Family is BUSY....everytime I say that I giggle to myself and think of THIS...I'm pretty sure I linked to this in my last post, but it was so long ago I can't remember...haha. I also tend to giggle now everytime I ask someone how they are and they reply with "oh you know, busy"

We have been scratching items off of our summer to-do list left and right. It has been a pretty HOT summer here in the Lou. Usually I love the summer and can tolerate the heat for the most part, but when you walk outside and the moisture is so heavy and the air is not circulating it makes me wish I was living in the Arctic!

The kids and I spent some quality time at the park which had a very refreshing Splash Pad. Leila is pretty timid about running through the water, but Malakai has a blast everytime!

Do you notice that most the pictures of Leila throughout this blog, include this scowl?! It is like her signature look! She really is a very happy child, she just is constantly giving this look! OMG! It drives me crazy!

Lots of updates to post....hope I don't get too "busy" *giggle*

XOXO,

Ten On Tuesday

2010-07-20T08:30:00.002-05:00

1. I now know why I never grow my hair out! My hair is the longest it has EVER been and it is AWFUL in this humidity! The positive side is that it is long enough to wear curly if I want, but I have to be in the right mood. Unless I am staying in the office all day (which never happens) straightening my hair is a big.fat.waste.of.time!

2. Speaking of hair, Leila's hair is a HOT MESS! It is in such an awkward stage that I don't even know what to do with it. Someone PLEASE HELP ME!! I can't stand it when it is down, which means I am ALWAYS putting in pony tails. Would you cut the back to make it more of a shortish bob until it all evens out? Cutting her bangs is not really an option since I must have them grown out. Please feel free to offer advice!

3. I'm very excited for our family trip to the Lake of the Ozarks in August. We have been doing this yearly trip since I was a little girl. My whole Rader side of the family goes and it is eventful to say the least. I missed a few years here and there throughout college, but that is life. Malakai has went every year since he was born and it is now a much looked forward to tradition for him as well. We eat at the same restaurants, ride the same go-karts, and get custard at the same places. The family time is very much enjoyed by all!!

4. Fantasy Football is right around the corner!! Love it!!

5. Big Brother makes me VERY happy! Do you think it is a requirement to have an annoying laugh?! OMG!

6. I survived my first (that I count) Glamping/float trip! It ended up being a very fun and eventful time. There are a few things I would do different (like avoiding the Party Pit) next time but had a blast with everyone we went with. Definitely have to take Malakai camping! He would LOVE it!!

7. Not only have I been awful at blogging lately, I've been awful at picture taking! I hate that! You can blog and catch up on what you missed, but you can't catch up on those days of missed pictures. Ugh!!

8. If you NEVER read any of the posts I link, PLEASE, read this one! It is SO true and I can post it because I am guilty of it as well!!

9. I ordered the Planet Earth: Pole to Pole DVD for Malakai and he is now OBSESSED! Check it out, discoverystore.com still has it on sale for $1.99!! I also had a free shipping code (which is since expired) which made this an even more awesome deal. He loves it!

10. Whenever you go to a party and have to bring a dish (appetizer, side, whatever), what is your go-to item you like to take? Please feel free to link to, or enter the entire recipe.

XOXO,

Miller

Menu Plan Monday

2010-07-19T15:00:00.000-05:00

Yes, it is Monday again :)

Monday: Yummy Bean Burritos
Chips and Salsa

Tuesday: Baked Swiss Chicken
Caesar Salad

Wednesday: I have a work function so Josh is doing dinner :)
Crescent Dogs
Macaroni and Cheese
Fresh Fruit

Thursday: Sausage and Rice
Biscuits

Friday: Date Night for Josh and I...probably ordering pizza for the kids :)

Saturday: Smoked Turkey and Artichoke Panini's
Grilled Asparagus
Fresh Fruit

Sunday: Spaghetti with Meat Sauce
Cheese Garlic Bread
Salad

I'm linked at orgjunkie.com

XOXO,

Mail Call!!!

2010-07-18T20:00:00.004-05:00

I would give ANYTHING to have family that lived close by! I HATE that we are spread all across the United States. One of the few good things that come from this is receiving care packages! My kids absolutely LOVE getting things in the mail. As I'm sure, most do. So you can imagine the glow in their little eyes when this package, from Aunt Heather and Uncle J Paul came for them!!

I immediately got my camera to take pics because it was so cute and creative!! We LOVED deciding which individual items were picked out by Aunt Heather and which ones came from Uncle J Paul ;)

Here is a pic BEFORE the kids tore into it!

Not only was the stuff so cute, but there was TWO of EVERYTHING! That meant NO fighting over who gets what! Thank you guys for that!! You have no idea what a lifesaver that was.

There were only two items that were different, but it was obvious one was for Leila and the other was for Malakai.

Here is another view of all the fun loot. The shot glasses were a little side item thrown in for mommy and daddy!

Thanks Aunt Heather and Uncle J Paul! We love you TONS and Miss you SOOOOOOO much!!<>

XOXO,

Broken...

2010-07-14T18:56:00.001-05:00

Computer cord....can't charge the laptop!!

Working on getting it fixed :)

XOXO,

Miller

Babe Ruth Saved Baseball....

2010-06-24T12:00:00.000-05:00

Okay, so this season of baseball for Malakai is almost over and I haven't posted ANY pictures!! This is his first year doing Coach Pitch. The nice thing is, is that Josh and Paul are coaching for the third year in a row and have carried a lot of the same boys through the years.

I truly LOVE watching Josh coach! He is in such his element. I know there are going to be many years of watching him do this, which is good, because I just can't get enough. The kids adore and respect him and the parents are forever impressed with him and his ability to work with the players.

Malakai seems to enjoy it as well. There has only been one game where his lack of motivation really caused steam to be released from Josh's ears! He held it in very well, since he was pitching and couldn't very well rip him off the field, however, I could see the smoke!!

We are still unsure if he is a lefty or a righty, which makes things rather difficult. But in the end, I think he is going to be just fine. Even if he doesn't make it in the big leagues, he could very well make it as an announcer! Which leads me to my next story....

Right after Malakai was born, my dad was in the bookstore and over heard a father reading his son THIS book. If you know my dad, you know he wears his emotions on his sleeve and got a little teary eyed while listening to this story. So, he bought the book for Malakai. It has since, become one of his all time favorite books.

Just the other week, in the middle of Malakai's game, he turns to Coach Paul and says, "Did you know Babe Ruth saved baseball Coach Paul?" A little thrown off by hearing a 5 year old talk about Babe Ruth, Coach Paul says "I did know that Malakai!" the sweet little boy then proceeds to shoot off all of Babe Ruths hitting statistics from when he played for Boston and when he played for the Yankees. I just love this kid!

Leila even enjoys watching :)

XOXO,

Teacher Appreciation

2010-06-23T10:00:00.001-05:00

I realize I am a little late here, but I just wanted to share the Teacher Appreciation gifts Malakai and I did this year. I am always STUCK on this topic, since I was a teacher and understand that most stuff, while greatly appreciated, isn't really used much.

Since my new obsession lately has been DIY blogs (just check the blogroll on the side) there were a million ideas floating out there. I finally went with these adorable M&M jars from Domestically Speaking.

I made one for each of Malakai's Teachers, including his Fine Arts Teachers, so I believe there were 8 in all. I think they turned out pretty cute!!

In case you can't read it, here is what the poem says...

Green is for the inspiration you give me each day.
Blue is for your patience in showing me the way.
Orange is for your warmth and caring style.
Yellow is for the way you always make me smile.
Red is for my life that you have touched this year.
You're a very special teacher just like this jar, that's clear.
You place knowledge in our children's hands
and melt into their hearts and lives forever.
You're a "Magnificent" & "Marvelous" teacher
Thank you for being my M&M.

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday

2010-06-22T11:08:00.004-05:00

1. Malakai and Kiera attended Summer Break Out at Grace Church last week. Let’s just say that it is a whole blog in itself! They had an amazing time! The theme this year was “Crack the Code” and they went on a “mission” to Kurdistan!! Malakai has taken an extreme interest in Kurdistan and enjoys filling me in on facts he learned throughout the week. The video below just gives a brief showing of what their week was like! I love it!!

2. I'm going GLAMPING! If you live in the Midwest, you are VERY familiar with float-trips. Everyone goes, sleeps in a tent, canoe's or rafts down the river all day, and sleeps or passes out in a tent again. I have been on ONE in my entire life and it was AWFUL!!! I have, until this past weekend, refused to ever go again! The one time I went, we forgot the poles to the tent so we slept in the car, the person in my canoe, who shall go unamed, screamed at me the entire time because I was doing it "wrong" and a snake jumped in our canoe. NOT FUN!! Josh has been asking me to give it another try and promises it will be a much better experience. FINE!! I'll do it! Especially since GLAMPING is the new black of travel. Josh is sort of rolling his eyes at this whole idea, but he isn't arguing....just shows how bad he wants to do it! Now if I can only get him to buy me this sleeping bag....hmmmmm

3. My mom comes in town of Friday. She is staying with us for 17 days! The kids are SO excited!! It will be nice to have her visit.

4. Have you ever looked at the "People you may know" on Facebook. Yes! I realize I may know these people, however, there is a reason I'm not friends with them :)

5. OMG! Kasey on The Bachelorette is CRAZY! From day one I told Josh his voice was like nails on a chalkboard to me!! Surely he will get home, watch these episodes, and enter therapy!! For the love of men!! I love Roberto! I predict him and Kirk to be the top two, but we will see.

6. I am leaving it in Josh’s hands to plan something for my 30th birthday. Why do I do this to myself?! I am the planner in this relationship! I could just do it and be done with it. Nope, not this time…it’s all him. I have Faith!

7. It has been HOT! Like walk outside and the humidity just falls on your body….HOT! Why is it like this in June? Usually this sort of heat holds off till mid-July!

8. Sometimes I wish my GPS had an "Avoid Ghetto" option!

9. Malakai came back from Kansas City with a new favorite show....Kick Buttowski...ummm, WTF?!

10. I'm a little disappointed that the next book in the Nora Roberts series doesn't come out until November! Really?! November!! That is like forever away!

XOXO,
Miller

Menu Plan Monday

2010-06-21T12:00:00.000-05:00

Seems like forever since we have had a PLAN! I feel like my life is so unorganized when my menu isn't planned!

Monday:

Beef Enchiladas

Spanish Rice

Tuesday: Breakfast for Dinner

Overnight French Toast Casserole

Fresh Fruit

It is also baseball night, so I like that I can make this in the AM before work, pop it in the fridge all day then throw it in the oven when we get home from baseball.

Wednesday:

Grilled Honey Lime Chicken Sandwiches

Cesar Salad

Grilled Asparagus

Thursday:

Tuna Cheesy Tortellini

Cheesy Garlic Bread

Friday: Miller Family Fun Night

Eat Out

Saturday:

Crispy Chicken Wraps

5 - Cup Fruit Salad (Made in the morning)

Sunday:

Ham and Cheddar Loaf

Tator Tots

Watermelon

XOXO,

Miller

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Summer To-Do's

2010-06-20T19:42:00.003-05:00

I have seen this idea around blog-land A LOT, so I can't really credit one place for the idea. Here is the deal with summer.

I feel like Stay-At-Home Mom's have a much more DRASTIC change in their lives when it comes to the transition of School Year to Summer. I mean really, they go from their kids being in school to having their kids home ALL the time. So they don't DIE of boredom, I feel they are MUCH more prepared for Summer. Having activities, camps, crafts, etc. planned throughout the summer. As for me, and I can probably speak for most working mom's, not a whole lot changes. Other than, you are finding other places/camps for your children to spend their days. I fear that this also makes it easier for me to almost "forget" about Summer. Remember how excited you were for Summer when you were a child?! There was nothing like it!! Swimming, playing with friends in the neighborhood, NO SCHOOL....the list is endless.

Since tomorrow starts the 1st OFFICIAL day of Summer, the timing is perfect :)

As a family, we put together this Miller Summer To-Do List. We all placed our favorite Summer Activities on there. Some of them we have already done, but that was before the "list" so we must do it again :) The goal is to have ALL items checked off before school starts in 2 short months!

I just used a piece of poster board and covered it with Scrapbook Paper and Stickers. Wrote out our list with a marker and put it in an old frame I found in the basement. The nice thing is is that I can take a dry erase marker and and mark things off the list right on the glass so I don't have to keep taking it out of the frame.

The Kids decided they wanted it in their playroom :)

What's on your Summer To-Do list?

XOXO,

10 pieces of advice to my 20 year old self....

2010-06-15T10:00:00.003-05:00

I have noticed lately that it is kind of the cool thing to do to write a letter to your younger self giving them advice. Since I am approaching the big 3.0 in just a few short months, I thought now was just as good a time as any. So, here it goes....10 things I would like to tell my 20 year old self...

1. You are currently in your Junior year at Arizona State University, having the time of your life with the most amazing people surrounding you. Enjoy every second, before you know it, it will be gone. Stop trying to please everybody, trying to be all things to all people. At this point, you've got all the tools it takes to trust your instincts, and your instincts are good ones.

2. What's with all the dieting? All that hard work is just going to go down the drain when you have children. Which you will...have children (multiple). Oh, and the Metabolife....they pull it off the market because of the Ephedra....hence it putting you in the hospital.

3. The kind of love you want, that you think doesn't exist...it does! You will find it. It will find you actually. So calm down. Oh and by the way, you know him already, that's the only hint I'm giving you. I know your heart has been broken and you think there is no one out there for you, but by the time you turn 21, you will have started the journey with your soulmate.

4. Thank you for not filming, photographing, or otherwise recording yourself doing anything you would regret. Good Call! It would have probably found it's way to youtube by now!

5. For the love of skin....Stop Tanning

6. Tell your dad thank you more often. You won't realize it until you have children of your own, but the sacrifice he made for you is amazing.

7. Enjoy being the baby now because you will only be for four more years. That is when you become a big sister....who would have thunk?

8. The tongue ring?! Not cute! Although I know you really think it is right now....it's not. Actually, it looks a little trashy. Just sayin...

9. Don't worry, you won't work in retail your whole life, but you will miss the discounts...that's all I'm gonna say about that.

10. Now, stop reading this, go to Colleens room, see if she wants to go to Perkins. Of course she will say yes. Don't forget to roll the windows down and have the radio blaring "Dancing Queen." Don't bother changing, she will be in her pajama pants as well. That's how you guys roll! Yes, Pat can come.

PS. Birth-Control Pill....doesn't work so much for you. Just be glad it waited to fail with the said soulmate spoken of above.

As you know, the above pic is from your 20th birthday party. You will wish that you could totally forget this night!! In fact, pretty sure you block it ALL out ;)

I am tagging ALL my blog/facebook friends to do the same thing. It actually turned out being a little fun!

XOXO,

Miller

Three Piggy Opera

2010-06-14T10:00:00.004-05:00

A couple of weeks ago, Malakai graduated from preschool. It was such a bitter sweet moment. Of course, I can remember like it was yesterday, bringing him home from the hospital on that brutally cold December evening.

I've never really thought this kind of stuff was a big deal. I mean, if you make a big deal out of EVERYTHING, then nothing ever really is a big deal. All I'm saying is if you celebrate preschool graduation, kindergarten graduation, intermediate school graduation, junior high graduation, high school graduation, then none of it is really a big deal because you're doing it all the time.
Needless to say, it was still nice to celebrate this accomplishment with Malakai and to kick off the summer vacation with a little celebration.

They veered away from the traditional cap and gown ceremony and made it more of a End of Year celebration. The first 30 minutes was spent with a performance of the Three Piggy Opera, which was SO freaking cute!! Remember the whole "Malakai not having a part" thing. Well it turns out, there were only about 6 parts and 50 kids, so he was the majority. As you can see from the pics, they were wearing pig noses, ears, and a beard. As they were filing onto the risers, Malakai shouts out "DAD! Check out my BEARD!" From the second they started singing, I had big, fat, tears in my eyes. It was like the past 5 years flashed in front of me.

Here is to you, my precious first child. When you started school this year, honestly I was a little scared of what it would be like for you. You loved to read books…as long as you could cuddle up close to mommy, and then take a wrestle break with Dad before finishing. You loved to write your letters, in shaving cream or in flour, but never with something as boring as a pencil. You weren’t interested in learning to write your name. You told us your Aunt Kiera knew how and she could just write it for you.

So what would Pre-school be like for you? Would you be able to pay attention to your teacher? Read through a book completely? Write your name with something so plain as a pencil and paper? And most troubling for me I wondered and worried...Would your teacher be able to see how truly amazing you are?

Oh son – you more than proved my worries pointless and calmed my anxious heart. You have had an amazing year. I’m so proud of you. You’ve flourished in the Pre-School social scene. You’ve completely captured the heart of your teacher, as I should have known you would. You’re reading and writing and learning so fast that I almost wish you could slow down.

I love how you’ve listened as you and your daddy pray each evening. You’ve heard him pray that you would be a good friend, and find someone who needs encouragement. You’ve heard him pray that you would consider others needs over your own. You’ve heard him pray that you would know that you are "the head and not the tail, above and not beneath". I love how you’ve adopted those prayers as your own. In your own five year old way, you’ve begun to ask God to show you what to do and how to love people as you go throughout your day.

I’m so excited at how you’ve grown over this past year. This year of firsts. This year of Pre-School. I’ve grown too. Congratulations to my precious baby boy!!

XOXO,

Miller

Playing Catch Up

2010-06-13T14:15:00.004-05:00

Menu Plan Monday will return on Monday, June 21st. No sense of starting it back up this week since the kids are out of town for the week. Yes, J and I have to eat, however, I am not planning a menu, we are flying by the seat of our pants :)

In the meantime, I have A LOT of catching up to do! So, for those few loyal blog readers I still have out there, I have prepared a post for everyday this week. I just wanted to give you a preview of what you have to look forward to!

-Malakai graduates from pre-school/The 3 piggy opera

-Lots of baseball games

-Summer DIY projects

-Cardinals Baseball

-Many FIRSTS for both children

-Mother's Day

-Much more going on in the Miller home.....

Looking forward to sharing all the updates with you this week!

XOXO,

F is for Flexibility

2010-05-20T10:00:00.000-05:00

My Living Life Simple daily read today really hit home. Thought I would share it with everyone!

F: Flexibility is a good thing

Left to my own devices, I tend to be an all-or-nothing kind of girl. If things don’t go exactly as planned, I’d rather they just didn’t go at all. Looks silly in black and white, doesn’t it?
Flexibility is a skill I’m pursuing, learning to hold my plans and my agenda more loosely in order to be open to what God has planned for me and my day. The desire of my heart is to want what he leads – and for that to happen, I must bend.

So, how flexible are you? Are you willing to let go of your plans, to try something new when things don’t go exactly as planned? Maybe like me, flexibility is something you’re asking God to teach you, something you’re in the process of learning as you pursue a simple life.
Flexibility is not something that comes naturally to me. But living simple requires flexibility. Life doesn’t always go as planned and being flexible is a much-needed skill.

Have you ever heard the saying, “If you don’t bend, you’ll break”? It’s so true, isn’t it? Without the flexibility required to adapt and change and try something new, we tend to break, to give up, to call it quits.

Reflection time :)

XOXO,
Miller

Ten on Wednesday!

2010-05-19T11:10:00.003-05:00

1. For the first time in my children’s lives, they had to go to the doctor together for sick visits. It was really strange. Leila has been telling me her ear “huwrts” and Malakai got sent home from school with a headache and fever on Monday. Turns out that neither had anything too dramatic. Malakai a viral infection and Leila a very small ear infection. She said a lot of the pain could be coming from her 2 year molars that are coming in. Lets just say I am truly blessed that teething has NEVER effected her sleep. Half the time, I don’t even know she is teething!

2. I am very excited for J and I’s staycation in June. I will NOT let myself feel the least bit guilty for taking some vacation time from work the week my children are in KC. Okay, maybe a little but J and I need that quality time! We will be attending Cardinal games, testing local hotels, and spending time at the winery’s.

3. I never used to refer to Josh as “J” when typing his name. However, after so many years of Colleen doing it, it has rubbed off on me! Now I never type out “Josh” and I even find myself calling him J in person. I wonder if he thinks its weird?

4. Leila is a TOTALLY different child than Malakai. She is very cuddly, but she is ORNERY! Almost to the point where it is scary! I can’t quite explain it, she just has this orneriness about her. She is not bad, that’s not what I’m saying. When I say “Leila Jane” when she is doing something she shouldn’t be, she looks at me and says “Whaaaat Moooom?” with those big eyes and crooked smile! I just can’t figure out where she got this from. From talking to J’s mom, he was the “perfect” child. All his issues began in highschool…ha ha! I know I was not honery as a child, so we came to the conclusion that she got it from her Aunt Heather! We love you Heather! If she turns out to be the woman you have become, we will be extremely HAPPY!

5. To quote Colleen (she’s getting a lot of shout outs this week) “ I CAN’T BELIEVE I HAVE A KINDERGARTNER!!!!!!”

6. I haven’t picked up my camera in a couple weeks. Honestly, I need to charge the battery and the battery charger isn’t in the normal place and everytime I think about it, I don’t have time to look for it at that point.

7. I did make some really cute last minute teacher appreciation gifts that I need to post a pic of. Note to self: Do this this week!

8. I’m an email hoarder! I don’t delete ANY emails! Right now I have three email accounts that I use. Work email I have 945 which is pretty good!!! I try to clean those out once a month. I still don’t delete them, just move them to other folders. Yahoo I have 19,162 and my hotmail account has 11,988. Do I have a problem?

9. Leila has graduated from the elastic headband/bows that wrap all the way around the head to just bows in her ponytails or now, big girl headbands!! Why are these so hard to find? Even on Etsy, it seems the majority for sale are the skinny elastic circles that go under the hair all the way around the head. Does that make sense? Does anyone have any experience with these? Do they stay on? I did buy a couple of these which are REALLY cute. Just didn’t know if anyone else had some suggestions.

10. Check out these HIDEOUS shoes we got Malakai STRICTLY for summer camp. They aren’t here yet, so he doesn’t know about them, but he is going to be SOOOO excited. He is obsessed with these shoes! I think they are awful, but sometimes seeing that smile is worth it. Plus, J gets sketchers at cost, so I’m not out a whole lot of money!

XOXO,

Miller

Menu Plan Monday

2010-05-17T08:32:00.003-05:00

So, I missed last week. Sorry about that! Basically everyone was fending for themselves in my house because I was fasting :) Just something I do! This is going to be a crazy week, filled with lots of baseball and hopefully NOT a lot of rain!

Monday: Baked Swiss Chicken (I'm trying a new recipe)

Steamed Veggies

Tuesday: Chili Dog Casserole

Fresh Fruit

Wednesday: Sloppy Joes (never got to these last week)

Tator Tots

Mac and Cheese

Thursday: Yummy Bean Burritos

Rice

Friday: CARDINALS GAME!!! This means Cotton Candy and Beer for dinner :)

Saturday: Tender Grilled Pork Chops

Grilled Asparagus

Mashed Potatoes

Sunday: Garlic Chicken Pasta with Spinach

Salad

Breadsticks

I hope everyone has a fabulous week!! I am linked at I'm an Organizing Junkie!

XOXO,

Miller

Everybody was Kung-Fu Fighting!

2010-05-13T17:30:00.001-05:00

Okay, so my title really has nothing to do with my post :)

Just wanted to say that Malakai and I were late for school/work this morning because we spent the entire morning glued to the television watching an infomercial on The Ninja! This thing is freaking amazing! I really shouldn't be allowed to watch infomercials! There are very few items I see that I don't want to purchase. However, I felt this one was blog worthy. Maybe because Malakai was so in to it as well! Every single thing this thing did we looked at each other and said "That's so cool" and high-fived. It truly was a bonding experience with my 5-year-old.

Does anyone have one of these? Do you like it? Would you buy it again? They compared it to the food-processor I currently have AND the silver bullet. They don't even compare to this thing!

The best thing? $59.95 with free shipping (I'm sure you can find it cheaper/this was just the commercial price)!!!!! Holy Cheapness!! I didn't buy it this morning...BUT I'm totally considering it. Maybe I'll give it to Malakai for his preschool graduation gift...hmmmm!

XOXO,

Miller

Ten On Tuesday

2010-05-04T20:52:00.004-05:00

1. I desperately need new clothes! There was a time in my life when I would have never said this. But, it is true. Ever since my 44 day hiatus from shopping, I've completely stopped shopping for myself. I am bored with my work clothes and I am bored with my casual clothes. What is a girl to do?

2. At Malakai's end of school celebration, his class is putting on the Three Little Pig Opera. Apparently there are several "parts" in the play and he did not receive one of them. He probably never would have even told me about it, but I found out about the "parts" and asked him about them. All he said is that he wanted one, but didn't get picked. I would love to know how they went about picking these parts. Was it at random? Did they try-out? I would never be the type to call and say "Why didn't MY child get picked?" but I would like to know the process of picking 4 and 5 year olds for "parts" What would you do?

3. I came across The ABC's of Living Simply not too long ago and thought I would share. I ended up printing these out on 4X6 cardstock and hole-punching them and hooking them all together with yarn to keep in my car. They give a great message and have really helped me find my center when finding my center has been difficult :)

Here is an example if you don't feel like looking at the entire site....

"Having a good attitude makes living simply - or living at all - that much easier. When we choose to do something and have a good attitude in the process it's easier to persevere through any challenges that arise. Why do you want to live simply? Are you excited about the prospect of learning to say no, adding balance to your life, finding and preserving some empty space on your calendar? Choosing to live simply can be an exciting adventure or a journey you'd rather not take - it's all in your attitude. So as you get up each morning, take some time to think about your attitude for the day. Will it be good or bad? Will you choose to complain about what you don't have, or to be grateful for the gifts God has given you? Make up your mind as the day begins. The choice is up to you."

4. J is working on Mother's Day...Blah! I should be used to this, but every year I think, maybe this year will be different. I understand why he does, it just sucks.

5. Speaking of J, he is amazing! He was home with Leila all day today, and had Malakai half the day as well and managed to paint the kitchen, do major yard-work and still have both kids ready to go to baseball practice when I got home, in which he coaches! Love him!

6. I was totally bored with American Idol this week.

7. Glee definitely made up for what American Idol lacked!

8. I should really add some pics to this post, but I am way to lazy right now to get up and get my camera. It will have to wait till next time :)

9. I realize this is a totally boring TonT. I apologize for that. My mind is totally blank right now and all I can really think about is curling up in my bed and sleeping for days.

10. Anyone have any good books they have read lately? I am in
major need of some new reads. I like a variety, so suggest anything you love!!

XOXO,

Menu Plan Monday

2010-05-03T08:00:00.002-05:00

Well, my dad was in town last week for French Dip Sandwich night and he said it was the BEST meal he had in a long time :) I think it still freaks him out a little to see the domestic side of me. It's kind of cute.

Monday: I got this recipe out of a "5 Ingredient" Cook book I had laying around....we will see how it turns out!

Upside Down Pizza Casserole -

1.5 lbs lean ground beef

1 (15 oz) can Italian-style tomato sauce

1.5 C shredded Mozzarella Cheese

1 (10 oz) pkg refrigerated biscuits

Preheat oven to 400 degrees. In a large skillet, cook ground beef until brown; drain. Stir in tomato sauce; heat through. Transfer mixture to a 2-quart rectangular baking dish. Sprinkle with cheese. Flatten each biscuit with your hand; arrange biscuits on top of cheese. Bake for 15-17 minutes or until biscuits are golden. Yields 5 servings.

Tuesday:

Taco Salads

Wednesday: Cinco De Mayo

Seems that the Taco Salads should be tonight, but I have a work thingy so J is on his own. So in this case it means Hot Dogs on the grill, Mac & Cheese, and Fresh Fruit.

I'm sure J and I will share some Margaritas when I get home :)

Thursday:

Sausage and Rice with Biscuits

I don't even know where this recipe came from, but it has been made in my family for years and my kids LOVE it!!

2 boxes Uncle Ben's Chicken Flavor Rice

1lb ground sausage (we like it a little spicy)

1 can biscuits

Brown Sausage/drain

Cook Rice as Directed on the box

Mix Sausage and Rice together

Serve in a bowl with biscuits on the side

That's all there is to it! I'm telling you, its AMAZING!!!

Friday: Eat Out/Family Night

Saturday:

Chicken Fettuccine/Salad/Garlic Bread

I realize this has been on the menu for a few weeks now and I have never gotten to it....hmmm, hopefully this week.

Sunday:

Kid Friendly Orange Chicken

I hope everyone has a great week!!! I am linked at I'm an Organizing Junkie!!

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday

2010-04-27T20:21:00.003-05:00

1. We had a fabulous weekend in KC! The only thing that kept it just short of perfect the fact that Josh wasn't able to join us.

2. The kids and I had a great breakfast with Kari, Allison, and baby Drake (who by the ways is freakin adorable!). I wish it could have lasted many more hours, because the three of us could talk and catch up for days! It amazes me that here we are, entering our thirties, married, kids, and we still have the connection with each other that we did 15 years ago. Life keeps us busy and we can go months without talking, but its a friendship that picks up right where we left it at, because of that, it is truly valued.

3. Malakai and Leila spent ALL DAY Saturday with Mama and Papa Miller. The had an absolute blast! I know I've said this before, but my children are truly blessed with wonderful grandparents. I love that all I have to do is even mention any of their names and their little faces just light up. Thanks Mama and Papa for the great day!

4. The purpose of this trip to KC was to see my little sister Kiera participate in the musical Cinderella. She is definitely a S.T.A.R.! I am so proud of her!! She totally rocked it and I look forward to watching her in many more throughout the years.

5. Recently, Colleen posted a blog which you can see by going here. As a mother, I knew exactly how she felt while writing this blog and her friend Claire gave some amazing advice! I LOVE Claire line of advice! "My RESPONSE is MY RESPONSIBILITY" What a great line to live by! This leads me to number 6...

6. Malakai tested me tonight for the first time in a REALLY long time! Not to go into long, boring, details, but it went a little like this. Josh coaches his baseball team and it was my night to be in charge of snacks. As I was handing them out to all 15 kids while lined up patiently, Malakai realizes the snack is Scooby Snacks. At this point he starts screaming and crying that he HATES Scooby Snacks....IN...MY...FACE! I immediately thought....My response, is my responsibility. We all know, initially, I wanted to drop what I was doing and drag his skinny, little bottom to the car, and from there....use your imagination. Instead, I looked him in the eye, told him I suggest he just stop talking before he digs himself a deeper hole and remove himself from my presence. I ended up dealing with the outburst later when I didn't have 10 other kids still waiting for their snack. I was totally humiliated by his behavior!! OMG! I'm sure you have all experienced this (or not if you have a perfect child) and you just want to crawl under a rock!

7. I WON!! I won a blog giveaway over on Kate's blog!! How cool is that?! I never win anything!! The prize is a $25 gift certificate to Build-A-Bear!! I am SO excited!! Thank you Kate!

8. Josh painted while I was in KC! This is the kind of painting I love! I leave, the walls are white, I return and they are a beautiful Allspice. It's like the painting fairy came :) We still have several rooms to do, but it is a start!

9. One of my Best Friends, Autumn is going to be my neighbor!!!! Hopefully....I hope I'm not jinxing anything. Her and her husband have a contract on a house just one street over from us! How exciting is that?! So cool!!!!!

10. Every time I watch Glee, I cry. I can't help it! I'm a total sucker for that kind of stuff. It just makes me think that in my next life I am going to be a star on Broadway....

XOXO,

Menu Plan Monday

2010-04-26T08:17:00.002-05:00

Let me start by saying, the swiss chicken in a crock pot was NOT near as good as when baked. I don't know if I missed a step or what, but it was BLAH!! Josh ended up eating some of it on a bun covered in mayo :)

Monday:

French Dip Sandwiches

Mashed Potatoes

Steamed Veggies

Tuesday:

Cheesy Chicken Enchilada Verde

Spanish Rice

Wednesday: Didn't get to this last week....

Tuna Noodle Casserole

Beer Bread

Fresh Fruit

Thursday: Breakfast for dinner

Surprise Pancakes

Crockpot Apples

Friday: Leftover Buffet

Saturday:

Pizza Melts

Macaroni and Cheese

Sunday:

Grilled Malibu Chicken

Grilled Asparagus

I hope everyone has a fabulous week! I am linked at I'm an Organizing Junkie!

XOXO,

Miller

Menu Plan Monday

2010-04-19T08:00:00.001-05:00

Well, this week is a little different. I am doing the pantry challenge. I did not do my norm, which is plan my menu, then add the stuff I need to the weekly Sunday grocery list. Instead, I did do some grocery shopping, but only for a few staple items that I can't get through the week without, ie. milk, bread, dog food, etc. I am challenging myself to "cook from the pantry/freezer." I am not very good at this, because I am not very creative. Makes it a little easier since we will be headed to KC for the weekend. So, this is what I came up with.

Monday:
Good Ole' Spaghetti w/ meat sauce
Salad
Garlic Bread

Tuesday:
Enchiladas
Spanish Rice

Wednesday:
Tuna Noodle Casserole
Beer Bread
Fresh Fruit

Thursday:
Chicken Fettuccine Alfredo
Salad

That's all I have this week folks! Short and Simple :)

I'm linked to Menu Plan Monday @ orgjunkie.com

XOXO,
Miller

Spirit Sprint!

2010-04-18T12:51:00.003-05:00

Yesterday the Miller family partook in the 2nd Annual St. Paul Spirit Sprint. Good times had by all. I'll tell you though, I really had NO idea what to expect. With everything this past year, we went in to it totally blind. That is the hard part about being new to this school. I just feel like when fliers go home, or when things are explained they are geared towards those (the majority) that already know what they are talking about. So, this year, Josh and I have been winging it and taking notes for next year, so we actually have a clue of what is going on :)

It is VERY rare that we ever have Josh home on a Saturday morning. Yes, he had to go in to work at noon, but still, we took full advantage of the morning. In fact, Malakai was SO confused when he woke up this morning because he thought it was Monday, since daddy was home yesterday morning....lol.

The day was beautiful, the weather actually had a bit of a chill in it which was nice. There were no age groups, just all the kids ran one full lap around Fenton park which turns out to be a little more than a mile. Malakai did an awesome job, and as you can see, had a lot of friends to socialize with along the way. We hung out and waited for them to finish so we have no idea what they did along the way, but he seemed to finish really well which means he had to of ran the majority of the way!! Leila enjoyed the face-painting!!

After the race, we chilled out with some water and bananas and completed the morning with some time at the playground. It was a great day! Josh and I wish we could have participated in the parent run, but his allergies were killing him and I'm not really sure what I would have done with the kids if we were running...hmmm.

XOXO,

P.S. If you couldn't tell, I was playing with different ways to upload pics into blogger...not sure that any way is better, just testing them out :)

Ten On Tuesday

2010-04-13T08:00:00.000-05:00

1. Does anyone else do this? I honestly think it would save my life!! But....I'm nervous! My luck...I would ruin something VERY important. Not that I can think of anything off the top of my head that qualifies as important, but I am still very nervous.

2. Does anyone see anything wrong with this picture? Previously Annaka posted a blog about her dog's bed. Looks like this is where my puppies prefer to sleep. Leaving very little room for myself to rest as well.

3. Allergy season has hit the Lou like a freight train!! My poor Josh and Malakai! They can't breathe they have swollen eyes and they are for the most part, miserable. This has lead to Malakai coming in to our room at the wee early hours of the morning because he can't sleep and I don't have the heart to turn him away. Again...another picture of me sleeping. Notice a trend? Josh said we both looked so cute and peaceful he couldn't turn down the kodak moment. My hair is H.O.T!!

4. There is no other season that gets this Miller Family more excited than BASEBALL SEASON! Specifically Cardinals! Love them! I have lived in many of towns, well okay only 3 with major baseball teams. I was even lucky enough to live in AZ when the Diamondbacks won the World Series. There is not a town in this country that compares to St. Louis during baseball season. This city is OBSESSED with their Cardinals...and why shouldn't they be? Their amazing! It's exciting! And we are not an exception.

5. Has anyone else's picture uploader in blogger changed? It's really annoying and makes me not even want to upload pictures! I used to be able to do them all at one time and just drag them where I wanted them to be. Now it is a huge PAIN!! I'm super annoyed by this!

6. I need a painting fairy! One of the very few downfalls of our new house is the stark, white, walls! It's awful! The only rooms painted were Malakai's and ours. I miss Leila's beautiful room from the old house. We have finally purchased some pain...at least for the living room and kitchen, but finding the time and energy to do it hasn't been very easy. Does anyone want to volunteer to come turn Leila's room back to this?

7. For fun, I did the Jersey Shore Nickname Generator for Josh and I. His nickname is Juice Box and mine is The Rack! I find this hilarious!!

8. I really want to plant flowers. I have a spot in the front of the house that really needs work. My problem is I don't even know where to start. I need a xanax just to enter the lawn and garden section at lowes...it's so overwhelming! Does anyone have any suggestions? I have to start from scratch...like get dirt and everything. Help!

9. My children are obsessed with toothbrushes. They each have like 12 and notice if one is missing. Is this normal?

10. Melissa (wish I could link you to her blog, but it is still in progress) and I have signed up for a pole-dancing class! Has anyone ever done one of these before? Talk about a cardio workout! Most of you would be lying if you said you have watched those girls and haven't, at least for a second, wished you could do that. We have finally synced our schedules and Wednesday nights it is! Oh boy! Wish me luck!

XOXO,

Menu Plan Monday

2010-04-12T08:00:00.003-05:00

It's another busy week!

Monday:
*Chicken Tenders, courtesy of Colleen...
These are her exact instructions: Take a package of chicken tenders, crush up a container of those French fried onion things, dunk each chicken tender in mustard, then the onion things, layer in baking pan or on a sheet. Bake at 350 until tenders are cooked through and golden brown. Usually about 30 minutes. You can make them in advance and refrigerate or freeze.
*French Fries
*Fresh Fruit

Tuesday: I'm working late/happy hour, so I will leave Josh to make his famous "Karissa isn't home, and I'm in charge of dinner" meal.
*Chili Dog Casserole

Wednesday: I'm hosting a get together at my house, so this will probably be a happy meal night for Josh and the kiddos.

Thursday:
*Crockpot Swiss Chicken
A long time ago, Colleen shared the baked swiss chicken recipe which everyone in my family LOVES! I am going to try this version in the crockpot and see if it is as good. Thursdays are always tough because Josh ALWAYS works late and there is no better feeling than to have dinner already ready when I get home from work.
*Crescent Rolls
*Steamed Veggies

Friday: We don't have volleyball tonight till 9:00 so, it's Breakfast for Dinner!
*Surprise Pancakes
*Crockpot Apples

Saturday: Eat Out

Sunday:
*Burgers on the grill
*Grilled Veggies

I am linked to Menu Plan Monday!!

XOXO,
Miller

Easter - Family = Bittersweet

2010-04-09T15:00:00.000-05:00

I have very fond memories of Easter as a child. All of my cousins gathering at my grandparents for the annual Easter Egg Hunt....just waiting for the day that I was actually old enough to be an "Egg Hider" and not just an "Egg Seeker"

As I entered college, Easter was not one of those holidays that I made it home for. Unfortunately we weren't granted much of a break, plus it landed either before or after Spring Break which I usually used to come home. So, in stepped the Kerwins. Oh, how I love the Kerwins. My home away from home, my second family, my savior in many situations. My Easter basket from Mrs. Kerwin, church with everyone, and the day spent at the Sawka's playing card games and eating ungodly amounts of food became my new Easter tradition. Those were the days!

Now I find myself at a point where I have to make my own traditions, for my own kids. As much as I would love to go home, there is just so much going on, that it isn't possible. So, even though it was much different than what I have been used to, we set out to make a very special Easter for our kiddos. At first I was set on going to a swanky Easter brunch, where we all got dressed up and pay way too much for a buffet that I only like a few items on anyway, and have to deal with crowds of people. Josh talked me in to hanging out at the house, and I was so glad he did!

Saturday we colored Easter Eggs which as much as I try not to, but it totally makes me sweat profusely! Malakai picked out Star Wars, which from the package, looked like it had stickers, however, it turned out they were rub-ons! Seriously?! Rub-ons on a hard boiled egg??!!! I don't think so! Leila picked Hello Kitty, I had Marble (which I never got to) and Josh had sports....original right? All in all, they turned out fine, however, due to my sweating I didn't get great pictures :)

Sunday morning, the kids were ecstatic to wake up to TWO baskets! One from the Easter bunny and one Poppy and Tutu had sent. I don't think Malakai even noticed anything after he saw the Super Mario Brothers DS game in Poppy and Tutu's basket! The Easter Bunny took the practical route this year and filled their baskets with summer themed items. Swimsuits, beach towels, goggles, pool toys, and flip-flops.

The baskets were followed by the obvious, an egg hunt. Malakai hunted for race car eggs and Leila princess-animal eggs. They had a ball!

The day was completed with a trip to the park. So, even though we didn't have family, or the Kerwins, it still turned out okay. Miller Family traditions being created on their own. I guess it's not really about me anymore, but those precious babies I would do anything for. That's what parenting is all about hen it comes down to it.

XOXO,

Discovering where you live....

2010-04-08T20:13:00.005-05:00

With the wild and crazy lives we live (ha ha) we get one, sometimes two vacations a year. As much as I would love to travel some where 4 or 5 times a year, it just isn't doable with our schedules. So, Josh and I have sort of made a pact to discover the city we live in. True, we have done A LOT in this city. However, when the research is done, there is still so much left undiscovered. So, every opportunity we have we are going to pick a new landmark and go check it out.

Josh's schedule was VERY light over the holiday weekend, which was SO nice!! We had so much quality time as a family and it was fabulous. Make sure those of you who have husbands that work a M-F job take the time to appreciate that! Because I work M-F and he Works weekends, are time together as a family is not nearly enough!

We decided to hit the famous Boathouse. This is a quaint little restaurant on a lake/pond smack dab in the middle of Forest Park. It is absolutely gorgeous, the atmosphere is romantic, yet suitable for a family, and the ambiance is amazing. The weather was upper 70's with just a slight over-cast, so in my eyes it was perfect. Thank goodness we had reservations because it was CRAZY down there. We purposely avoided the zoo, which is also in Forest Park because we knew it was going to be crazy, but that doesn't mean we avoided the traffic! Holy Traffic-Jam! It was worth it though! The food was great, the kids fed the ducks, the weather was perfect to just walk around the park after lunch and just let the kids be the leaders. Wherever they went we followed.

We ended the day with a volleyball game Josh and I had, followed by a round of Go Karts at the local Swing-Around-Fun Town.

Days like this fall in my "perfect" category.

XOXO,

Menu Plan Monday

2010-04-05T08:52:00.004-05:00

You'll probably notice a trend in my meal planning....everything is EASY!! Sometimes I am able to be a little more creative when Josh is off, but for the most party, easy is the key word. After work, I pick up Malakai from school and walk in the door about 5:30. My kids are foaming at the mouth by 6:00. Of course I spend the first 15 giving hugs and kisses and talking to Sarah about Leila's day, so, I have to be speedy!! I try to prep in the evening or pre-cook all my meats on Sunday to give me a leg up :)

Monday: Cheesy Chicken Enchilada Verde
Black Beans
Rice
I didn't get to this last week but I am very excited about it!!

Tuesday: Grilled Malibu Chicken
Baked Beans
Pasta Salad
How good does this look? Josh is home on Tuesdays, which makes that a great grilling day for him! I emailed him this recipe and told him it was on the menu this week, all ingredients are on hand, I have no doubt that he will pull through :)

Wednesday: Ravioli in Spinach Alfredo Sauce
Salad
Bread Sticks
I'm really pushing the envelope on this one, but we will see how the kids do :)

Thursday: Breakfast for Dinner
French Toast
Sausage
Fresh Fruit

Friday: Volleyball Night....Pizza

Saturday: Left Over Buffet

Sunday: Tex-Mex Beef Barbecues
Corn on the Cob
Salad

Happy Monday Everyone!! Have an Excellent Week!!

I'm linked to Menu Plan Monday at I'm an organizing Junkie

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday....one day late

2010-03-31T20:52:00.002-05:00

1. We had a fabulous weekend with our family that was visiting from KC! Thank you to Cindi, Mallory, Baby Liam, Michael, Bobby Joe, and Riley for coming to Miller Town for the weekend! It was a full house and I loved it. There is nothing better than having family around. You definitely learn to appreciate it more when you don't have it all the time. That is for sure!!

2. I'm not putting any pictures in this TonT! I think that is a first!!

3. We will miss going to KC for Easter this year. We usually do, but there are just too many things going on in April and May that will involve us going to KC and we just can't do it every weekend. As much as we love it, it is exhausting!! I haven't decided if we are going to go to a brunch somewhere or if we should just bbq at home. What are you doing for Easter?

4. I'm addicted to Brain Buddies on Facebook! Don't ever play, it will consume your entire life!!

5. What is the average price for school lunch? I have not had to pay before because Malakai's school was re-doing their cafeteria and kitchen all year so he had to bring his every day. However, the construction is done and they are offering a new program. Even though he is so picky, there are days I think he would enjoy it. I find it kind of annoying that we have to go online, pick what days we want (at least 48 hrs in advance) and pay with paypal, anywhere from $3.00 - 4.50. Is that average? Just curious...

6. We are going to lunch at the Boathouse on Friday!! I am very excited to have Miller Family Funday! As long as we have been in St. Louis, we have never eaten here! That's pretty bad! It's almost like living here and never going to the Arch!! Yay for beautiful weather and much needed quality family time!!

7. I LOVED Usher on American Idol!! I love him!! I really think him and Justin Timberlake need to do a song together! That would be H.O.T!!

8. Opening day is just around the corner! Eeeeekkk!!! As much as I love KC, NOTHING beats Cardinals Baseball! Can't wait to see my boy Skip tear it up this season! I'm feeling some definite post-season play!!

9. Embarrassing moment of the week: I was running on my treadmill in the basement, ipod cranked, and singing/screaming my workout playlist at the top of my lungs. Mind you, I'm out of breath so the singing was next to awful!! We are talking Big Girls Don't Cry, Spice Girls, Bossy, a great mixture. When I got off, I realized the screen door was open and my neighbors were on their back deck!! Seriously?! I could have died!!

10. Anyone have any good April Fools Day tricks they are pulling on their fam? I was looking for harmless ideas to do to Malakai and Leila. Among one of my favorites was to put a Crayola bath tablet in the sink faucet, so when they turn it on in the morning to brush their teeth the water will be blue/red/yellow etc. I thought that was really cute. One suggestion was to swap your children in their bed at night so they wake up in their siblings bed. I seriously think Malakai would FREAK out if he woke up in Leila's crib! OMG!

XOXO,

Menu Plan Monday

2010-03-29T08:25:00.002-05:00

Last week was a CRAZY week, but we managed to stick to our menu pretty well! For those of you who missed last weeks, go here. The Creamy Black-Bean Chicken and the French dip sandwiches were A-Mazing!!

So, here we go for this week…

Monday: Since we had a little change of plans we didn’t get to the Sloppy Joes and Tator tot night, so that will be dinner this evening.

Tuesday: It’s that time of the year. Grilling will be on the menu probably every week starting now. We have some Salmon that he is going to do for us and hotdogs for the kids. Gonna throw in some Macaroni Salad, Mac and Cheese (for the kids) and some grilled mixed vegetables.

Wednesday: Cheesy Chicken Enchiladas Verde
Black Beans
Spanish Rice

Thursday: Pepperoni Pizza Quiche! I’m not quite sure about this, but I wanted to try something different and it got Fabulous reviews! Has anyone out there tried this? What did you think?

Friday: Eat Out Night/Volleyball

Saturday: Baked Chicken Penne

Salad

Bread Sticks

Sunday: We are going out for a family Easter Brunch, so probably won't be SUPER hungry. Perfect day for a Leftover Buffet :)

XOXO,

Miller

Outside Fun!

2010-03-25T08:00:00.000-05:00

In this generation of computers and video games (which, I'm not going to lie, my son is obsessed with) I am thankful that my children still prefer to be outside when the opportunity arises. We have been blessed with a slight look at Spring and we have taken FULL advantage.

I love that I can open up the back side of the house, hang out on the deck, and the kids can just PLAY! I swear, Malakai would be out there for HOURS if allowed. I had a chance to shoot a few pics the other day...

Also couldn't get by without taking pics of the two cutest Leprechauns EVER! As you can tell, Malakai has gotten a haircut and he LOVES it! He has been asking for awhile to have short hair, and after Josh saw Jackson's, there was no stopping them! I feel like it makes him look so much older!

XOXO,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-24T08:00:00.000-05:00

XOXO,

Ten On Tuesday...HCG Style

2010-03-23T08:00:00.000-05:00

For the past 23 days I have been partaking in the HCG Diet. This week's TonT is going to be based on just that...my life on HCG.

1. I'm not going to go in to HUGE detail on the specifics of this diet, if you are that interested you can click on the link above.

2. Josh did A LOT of research before allowing me to spend the money on the HCG drops. I did not purchase them online, but from a very good friend who is a Chiropractor. His two requests were, 1) I don't act like I'm pregnant and 2) I don't have an increased chance of getting pregnant. Typical male!

3. I lost 17.5lbs in 23 days!

4. I did this by only eating a very specific, 500 calorie a day diet! Obviously anyone who eats 500 calories is going to lose weight, however, the HCG is supposed to keep your body from going into starvation mode, which helps you keep the weight off when you stop the drops.

5. I am now in the maintenance phase for three weeks. I have stopped the drops and increased my calories to 1500/2000 a day.

6. I was unable to work out or drink alcohol during this time. This was not easy, especially since I partaked in a trivia night and a happy hour! I can also tell I have not worked out. Yes, I've lost the pounds, but I feel my body is flabby. Where as when I lose weight while working out, I am also tone, which in my opinion, is much better.

7. I probably wouldn't do this diet again.

8. Although I'm glad I did it, and it gave me a jump start I needed, it was HARD!

9. Because of this diet, I now am a black coffee drinker (never have been in my life) and I no longer consume un-godly amounts of sugar free redbull and regular soda. For that, I am thankful.

10. Now I'm thinking of starting the P90X. This is something that Josh and I can do together. Kind of as a bonding time :) Considering the only time we can both do this together would be at about 5:00am every morning, not sure how much "bonding" would actually be going on :)

XOXO,

Menu Plan Monday

2010-03-22T08:00:00.001-05:00

This is something that I have been doing pretty successfully since the beginning of the year. I realized I enjoy looking at other people's weekly menus for ideas, so I am going to try to be posting mine as well :) I will also be linking up with Menu Plan Monday on I'm an Organizing Junkie!

This is what I start the week with, some weeks I switch around the days depending on schedule changes :)

*disclaimer: don't judge me for lack of healthiness/vegetables/organic/originality/blah blah blah! I do what I can, the best I can do it :)

Monday: French Dip Sandwiches/Mashed Potatoes/Grilled Asparagus

Tuesday: Breakfast for Dinner/Blueberry Pancakes/Sausage Links/Sliced Apples

Wednesday: Sloppy Joes/Macaroni and Cheese

Thursday: Creamy Black Bean Salsa Chicken/Spanish Rice

Friday: Left-Over Buffet

Saturday: Eating out/Out of town guests :)

Sunday: Cheeseburgers on the grill/Grilled Corn on the Cob/Tator Tots

XOXO,

Leila Jane is Two!!

2010-03-21T12:46:00.007-05:00

Happy Birthday to my precious Leila Jane! She has headed in to the Two's with Full Force!! I'm just going to give you a few highlights of the birthday celebrations....that seems to have lasted weeks!!

Even though her party wasn't till 4 days after her birthday, I still wanted to do something special on her "day" So the night before, I spent HOURS making THESE cupcakes for her! I had no idea what I was getting myself into! They were delicious, but I don't think anyone really appreciated the effort that went in to them! We had pizza and crazy bread (Leila's favorite) and skyped Kiera who enjoyed cupcakes and sang happy birthday with us, along with Sarah.

The party in Kansas City was a huge hit! Thank you so much to Goodness Sakes, Cakes! for providing the PERFECT Abby Cadabby cake! All the family was there and Leila was in heaven! The weekend went by way too fast, like always, but we had a great time!!

I also got to meet my new, precious baby cousin, Liam!! My kids are just as much in love with him as Josh and I are! He is so sweet and snuglly, I just want to take him home with me!

Till Next Time!

XOXO,

I love Free!!

2010-03-03T09:02:00.004-06:00

Most have you have already seen this, but since my blog also feeds to my facebook, I wanted to spread it to those friends as well!

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Thank you PYP Blog!

XOXO,
Miller

Ten things I want to buy myself...

2010-03-02T20:07:00.005-06:00

To add a little variety to T on T, here are ten things I want to buy myself. But probably won't for awhile due to the following reasons:

a) There are other things more important/logical, higher on the list

b) I'm waiting for Josh to buy it FOR me

c) They are just ridiculously overpriced

1. A sewing machine! With all my DIY projects, I really think I could get good use out of one. Nothing expensive, just a beginners one to get me started.

2. New Bedroom Furniture. Since I went Psycho when I was prego with Leila and took apart our HUGE 80's bedroom set, piece-by-piece, with a hammer, we have been without. Other than a dresser. Josh is totally fine with this, all he cares about is we still have the Cali King bed. But, with the new house, it's time to stop putting our room last on the list.

3. One of these necklaces from Avaeli who is an amazing Etsy seller AND a local St. Louisan!

4 and 5. A new lens for my camera. This goes along with 5 which is a photography class. I don't by any means want to be a professional, I just wanna shoot decent pictures of my babies.

6. A weekend, or week-long, getaway with Josh....hopefully that is coming soon!!

7. New Boobs! These ARE coming sooner rather than later! Those of you who have had children KNOW what having kids do to a woman's body. Looks like 2010 will be the year!

8. A Kindle!!

9. These Betsey Johnson shoes!! I don't really have anywhere to wear them, but I have been in love with them for some time now and they actually just went on sale. Hmmmm

10. Last but not least, I can't do this list without putting an outrageously expensive purse that I am just DYING for. The Villador Carpetto Bow Bag! Wouldn't it look fabulous on my arm this spring?! In my dreams, I would ever get this one...BUT the great thing about blogging about it? Lot's of eyes out there for me to look for a look-a-like :) I'm even open to other colors!!

XOXO,

My Heart Hurts...

2010-03-01T19:08:00.004-06:00

When it hurts for myself, I can handle it! However, right now my heart is seriously aching for my children. Mainly Malakai, because he is older, but it aches for both of them. It is the worse feeling in the entire world!!

My mom said her good-bye's to the kids this evening, as she is leaving tomorrow for Phoenix where she has made the decision to reside. I, myself, am okay with this. Yes, I will miss her. But all my life I've went back and forth living in the same city as her. I'm 29 years old, I can handle it. Malakai on the other hand. Has no idea what is about to hit him. He has seen her almost every day for his entire 5 year life. They have movie nights, have spent every Valentines Day together for the past 5 years, read books, go get ice-cream, the list just goes on and on. Putting all the issues my mom and I have ever had aside, she has been an AMAZING grandparent to my two children. She was the only constant relative in their daily lives, everyone else is far away. Leila is just to young to realize what is going on, but my Malakai, he gets it, but he doesn't get it.

He told me tonight "Mommy, my heart is broken Grandma is leaving. But I will see her probably Friday or Saturday!" I try to tell him that he will not, but it just hurts my heart even more. I wish I could tell him we will see her a lot, but that would be a lie. As much as Josh and I would love to make it out to Phoenix a lot, we are averaging once every other year. I foresee her making it back here once a year. How do I explain this to him? Will it even effect him since he is only 5? I have no idea where to even begin with this issue. I would love your ideas and suggestions.

XOXO,

Ten on....

2010-02-24T22:02:00.006-06:00

1. I know I've said this before, but I'm saying it again! We have created a monster in Malakai with the video games!! Because my dad and Lisa got him a Wii Fit for Christmas, it has gotten worse! On the positive side, it is GREAT for bribery! We have started a great system where he can earn his video game minutes. It seems to be working out for now. I like to think it is a little educational as well, since he checks the weather on the Wii every morning before school. I love these pics of him and his little friend Gwen playing. So cute!

2. I have NO idea where he gets it ;) When the kids go to bed, the grown-ups get to rock-out! Our friends are the GREATEST!! Check out Josh! Who knew??!! LOL!

3. Leila is Sneaky!! She is notorious for stealing Malakai's drinks and snacks! Josh and I find it rather comical, and Malakai even seems to have a good attitude about it. The SECOND he leaves something unattended, she is ON it!!

4. On that same note, she wants to be next to him at all times. We are totally guilty of having second child syndrome with her. A capri sun/sucker/candy never even touched Malakai's mouth till he was MUCH older than her. With her though, she sees him with it and NEEDS it as well. I have to pick my battles with this girl and that is one I choose not to go in to. Pictures of them together are so rare....

5. Some of you saw this on facebook, some did not...My dad found this picture of me when I was little and you would be surprised how many people actually think it is Leila!! Surely they know me better than that, come on, those shoes!!!!??? Totally 80's!

6. Poor Malakai has been given my sensitive skin! His lips are cracked all winter, his nose is dry, and he has a SEVERE case of eczema on his knees, ankles, and wrists. He even got in trouble at school for having his hands down the backside of his pants!! When we got home, I checked him out and sure enough, the eczema had moved its way to his poor, little, bottom. I took him to the doctor and got some heavy-duty steroid cream which seems to be doing the job. He was NOT happy about going to the doctor though, can you tell??!!

7. Lego's have taken over my house!!! They are everywhere! Have I mentioned they HURT to step on!!

8. I have a new favorite spot in the house. This is where you can find me, unwinding, everynight after the kids are in bed. It's so warm and cozy. Love it!

9. Does anyone else's children INSIST on removing their shirts as soon as they get home!? I feel like so many of my pics my children on topless!! I never even really noticed till I started going through a lot of them. Seriously! The Miller children love to bake though! We had a great time making these cookies this past weekend :)

10. Last but not least, what are your children doing for the summer?! Some of Malakai's friends are doing a camp at the local sports complex which would be really fun for him. A part of me kind of wants him in that good ole' Summer Camp. You know, the one where they are outside all day playing, go swimming, play creative games, do arts and crafts, and take the occasional field trip. Do those even exist anymore? I would love to hear what you have planned for your children!!

XOXO,

I'm Baaa-aaack

2010-02-22T21:30:00.003-06:00

I'm done with the whole "reflection" time of my blog, and ready to get back into it. I just had to step away for a couple of weeks and focus on some other things going on in my life. But no worries, I am back!

As always, the Miller family has been crazy busy! I will try to give you a "brief" synopsis, but if I tried to write about all of it, I would be having carpel tunnel surgery in my near future.

Malakai has turned into my five-year old big boy. He is obsessed with Mario and Luigi, video games, and taunting his little sister. His imagination is amazing! To hear the things he says blows my mind. His wheels are always turning. He invents things on a daily basis, started asking questions about death, and 90% of the time is the most respectful, well-behaved gentlemen. Let's not forget he is five, so that other 10% is brutal.

Leila...what can I say about Leila? She knows what she wants and she knows how to get it. If she doesn't....look out!! She wants to do everything her big brother does, but on the other hand, she is SO girly. She plays with babies all day long, wants make-up "like mama," has a VERY strong opinion on every article of clothing she puts on from hair bows to shoes, and continues to blow my mind with her love and tenderness. I can't believe she is going to be two in just a couple of weeks! She is very much looking forward to her Abby Cadabby party :)

Josh and I have been busy as well. You know, work, family-time, co-ed volleyball, getting the new house "liveable." Pretty much just the normal stuff. We had some fabulous sushi on Valentines with one of our favorite couples, Autumn and James. The kids stayed the night with Grandma, so it was SO nice being able to sleep in and enjoy the quality time. My menu planning has gone AMAZING! I started the beginning of January and I have almost every week night since then! So if you ever have a great family-friendly recipe, shoot it my way! I'm always looking for new things!!

That's about it in a nutshell. A few more things come to mind, but then I wouldn't have anything left for my Ten on Tuesday! So, I will leave you with a few pics!

XOXO,

Boring....

2010-02-01T20:50:00.002-06:00

The one word I can use to describe my blog lately! It just seems so boring. Like I've gotten into this repetitive routine and it is driving me crazy! I used to be so much more than just 10 on Tuesdays and the random paragraph of something that just seems, well, boring.

This is bothering me a lot. It seems I work VERY hard in all aspects of my life to keep them from being repetitive and boring. Like Josh and I, for example. I have the biggest fear of falling into a rut of a relationship that has no excitement, is totally predictable, and has little to no spark left in it. This takes A LOT of work!! Somehow, over the years, we have managed pretty well. Constantly making time for just the two of us and focusing on being a couple and not just a couple of parents. This goes the same with my job, my kids, my friends, etc. I try to take nothing for granted and live each day to the fullest. Don't get me wrong. Some days my day consists of nothing more than work, home, dinner, bath, kids in bed, snuggle, and bed for myself. Okay, maybe most days. But even then, I try to do one thing everyday that is unpredictable.

So, why have I let my blog slack?

I have learned that in the blog world, this is known as the Slump. I started this blog, lets see, in April it will be two years. I'd say the Slump started about 5 or 6 months ago. Writing is hard. Writing is hard in more ways than one. First, it's hard to think of good things to write. Some days I'm so tired. Some days I just don't feel very smart. Some days I don't feel creative. I don't want to share what's in my head because I don't feel like there IS anything in my head. NOTHING. Nothing but a plethora of random Microsoft passwords and pin numbers bouncing around in my brain. Nothing but "don't forget to pick up milk and fill out Malakai's school forms and I have a 7:30 meeting in the morning". Plus, when I look back over things I have written I start to get really critical. I start to think maybe this is stupid. Maybe I can't write. Maybe any of the excitement I felt when I started this blog has already run its course, and I have gotten all I can from it.

I guess now would be the time to examine why I really did want to do this in the first place. I love to write. It is obviously far from being my expertise, but my whole purpose of this blog is to have it put into books for my kids when they are grown. They are going to get to this point, stop reading, and say B.O.R.I.N.G! I also wanted to do this because I was starting to feel lost. Like I was losing my identity in a suburban neighborhood driving an over sized SUV, working 9-5, trying to prove that working mom's can still be darn good room-mothers. I still want to be Karissa too. I wanted to do this because I felt like I would lose my mind if I didn't start doing something creative. Something that challenged me. Something that made me think.

So here is a promise to myself, and to my children and their one-day spouses, to focus more on not making this blog boring. What does this mean? I don't really know. I feel like I have gotten away from opinionated blogs for fear of upsetting people. Not anymore folks. An opinion is exactly that...an opinion...and it's mine! If it's not the same as yours, that's okay! In fact, I would love to hear yours. I respect everyone's beliefs and opinions, even if deep down, I know mine are right. Ha Ha! It's a joke people, lighten up! Colleen and I have been best friends for 12 years or something like that and we agree on a lot of stuff. However, we probably have different opinions on even more....I love that! My blog used to be a place where I could log in and just let it out. Congratulations to you if you live in pure bliss, if your not scrambling some evenings making sure at least one of your five year olds 12 uniform shirts are clean for the next day, if you never have the feeling of wanting to shut yourself in the bathroom and scream at the top of your lungs because your kids are fighting over the same damn toy you've taken away 12 times, if you husband is perfect and never forgets to update his work schedule with you (or the nanny). These imperfections are what makes The Miller's us...what makes our chaos pure bliss. I love it, and I need to express it more.

So, here is to February! Thank goodness I made it through January, the longest, coldest, most miserable month EVER!

XOXO,

Bow-Riffic!

2010-01-25T21:09:00.003-06:00

I have succeeded in completing my first few hairbows for Leila this weekend!! I dragged the kids to Hobby Lobby Saturday night and picked up $25 worth of supplies. This included a glue gun and basically EVERYTHING needed to make a crap load of bows! I didn't really go all out on the ribbon selection, since I wanted to see if this was even something I could remotely do. I think they turned out pretty good. Now I need to focus on smaller ones since her hair always seems to be in a pony or piggies nowadays.

These bows would cost me a minimum of 5 dollars a piece on Etsy....not including shipping. So I almost have my money back :)

I'd have to say the most difficult part was lining those stinking alligator clips...Dang! Hot glue gun burns do not feel very good!

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday....where did the week go?

2010-01-20T21:05:00.007-06:00

1. We had a fabulous weekend with the Maw Maw and Pa pa Miller this past weekend! A lot of just hanging out and enjoying each other's company.

2. Josh and Bob spent ALL day Saturday and part of Sunday putting together the new swing-set they purchased the kids for Christmas. Here are a few pics of the LONG process. Along with their little helper :)

They got the monkey bars and swing-set added, Josh just has a final few touches to make :)

3. They brought Great Grandma Miller down with them as well!! Little Miss Leila took to her immediately and really enjoyed bringing her her babies, crawling up on her lap, and the occasional back scratch!

4. The kids also had a great time with Maw Maw coloring, reading, and just having some great quality time! We sure do love having them here!!

5. Leila has reached that wonderful stage of toddler-hood where she has started undressing herself when she is down for a nap! Ugh! I totally remember Malakai going through this...I just forget how long it will last! However, as you can tell from most of the pictures, she doesn't have to be in bed to undress herself! She's a less is more kind of gal!

6. Speaking of Leila, she hasn't mentioned her B in almost a week now. She survived the dramatic transition!! Or should I say, I survived the dramatic transition?!

7. Have you seen Bella lately? She's a MOOSE!! Heart seems to be ticking just fine...for now!

8. I started my new position this week! Some of the ladies from the old office and I went out on Friday night to celebrate/mourn. It was a great time had by all!! I love those girls! Take a look at what they chipped in and got me! I'm SO excited and have already used it numerous times!! They know me ALL to well. Josh may be the king of the carpets, but I am now Queen of the hard floors! Ha Ha!

9. Malakai got his mop cut this week. I don't have a recent picture but I will get one up as soon as I can. I seem to be the only one who loves his hair long! Because of this, I always catch a lot of crap once it gets past a certain length. Apparently his teachers have said something about it being in his eyes because once he got it cut he said "Mrs. X will be very happy my hair isn't in my eyes anymore!" Seriously?! Not really sure that is their place, but whatever.

10. Give me a "Whoo Hoo!" if your cheering for Alli on The Bachelor. Jake still hasn't grown on me much, but I really LOVE her!

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday

2010-01-12T20:20:00.004-06:00

1. I plan to get back to more blogging, other than Ten on Tuesday REAL soon!

2. The B's are gone!! For those of you not aware of what a B is, it is what Leila referred to her binkies as. I hadn't really planned to do it this past Sunday, but we misplaced the LAST one we had lingering and what better time than then?! The first night was fine, however, Monday was a NIGHTMARE! She screamed and cried for it from the second I got home from work at 5:30 and continued for about an hour after she went to bed at 6:45!! It broke my heart! And honestly, if I had one to give her, I probably would have. It just seems so sad, this item that she has depended on for her entire life for comfort has just disappeared. I knew it was time though, and tonight was MUCH better! She didn't even ask for it! Whoo Hoo!!

3. I have a new hobby! I had mentioned before how I have really been getting into DIY projects. Hence the ever growing list of inspiring blogs in my blogroll. I have found so much satisfaction in something getting complimented and me being able to say "I made that!" I will have a future post featuring some of my projects! I'm definitely a beginner, but having a lot of fun learning! I hope to buy a sewing machine REAL soon!! I'm not sure where I will find the time, but I always seem to manage somehow :) Along with scrapbooking!

4. Because of 3, I have a new favorite site! It is called You Can Make This! I have started making Leila hair bows and taught myself from an ebook on this site that cost only 7 dollars! How awesome is that!!! Totally worth the investment, considering I was spending a small fortune on Etsy!! I can't wait to dive in some of their other awesome projects!

5. It has been BLISTERY cold here!! We were finally hit with our first official (I say official because it caused a snowday) snow of the season. I was starting to get jealous that Kansas City was getting all the good stuff and we weren't getting ANY! I wasn't quite expecting snow AND below zero temperatures, but we managed. I even got a few pics of the 5 minutes the kids were allowed outside to enjoy it...4 days AFTER it originally snowed :)

6. Speaking of snow, this is the first time we have EVER had to shovel a driveway!! Our previous house was totally maintenance free, which means we never had to shovel and we never had to do yard work. So when Josh woke up at 6:30am after the snow, looked outside and noticed all the other men were already out shoveling their driveways, he hurried out there. Gotta keep up with the Jones'! He informed me that no man wants to be "That Guy!" on the street :)

7. Menu planning has been going exceptionally well! I've enjoyed the cooking and the kids are even starting to warm up to the idea of eating "different" foods! I can totally see the savings it is giving us. I even made a special trip to a grocery store I don't normally use, but they were running a 10 for $10 sale that you could mix and match with. There happened to be stuff that we use quite a bit. Take a look at all the stuff I got for...wait for it...30 dollars!! Hello!! Not pictured, a case of water :)

8. I am SO loving this season of The Bachelor! I don't really think Jake is the guy he tries to portray, considering he gave the special rose to the first girl that stuck her tongue down his throat, however, these girls are VERY entertaining! Plus I laugh out loud as Josh watches and continuously is saying "Vienna Sausage, just GO HOME!"

9. I received my checks from the Baby Einstein recall! Guess what I'm treating myself to?! The Wii Fit!! I really want The Biggest Loser AND the Jillian Michaels game! Even though I will continue my running since we are doing the St. Louis Half Marathon, I want something fun that will give me something different than just running, without going to the gym. Anyone have any views on either of these?

10. My feet stink! This problem has seemed to come and go through out my life. I'm not gonna lie, they can get funky! Does anyone have any suggestions for this as well? I can't even wear my uggs without Josh making me wash my feet before I get into bed. This is not very fun for me!

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday!

2010-01-05T22:12:00.007-06:00

1. We have yet to celebrate Christmas with our KC family :( Due to crazy work schedules and darn Missouri weather, it just has not been possible. Right now we are looking at making it up there the first of Feb. Better late than never!

2. However, the in-laws are coming in town next weekend and we are very excited! They sent the kids this AMAZING play-set for their new back yard and Barb and I get to sip some wine and sit back and laugh at Bob and Josh as they try to put it together :) The kids love spending quality time with their Maw Maw and Pa Pa!

3. Our good friends, The Meyers had a fabulous New Years party! It was filled with great adult cocktails, fabulous conversation, and plenty to keep the kiddos entertained. We actually did our midnight countdown at 9pm with all the kids. They were so cute and excited to ring in the new year. This put us home in time to put them to bed and relax on the couch to watch the REAL countdown. Good times had by all!

4. New Years Day was one of the few days that we have had to spend as a family in A LONG time!! We stayed in our pjs and played all morning, headed to Chuck E. Cheese for lunch, did some furniture shopping, and just enjoyed our time together. Oh how I dream of the days that Josh will have normal hours and be home on the weekends :)

5. As many have noticed, and also pointed out. Santa DID NOT take Leila's B's (binkies) when he visited our house on Christmas Eve. He had full intentions, but thanks to Colleen, who game me his email address, I sent him a message filling him in on the situation. Malakai (knock on wood) has NEVER had a diaper rash...EVER. And, neither has Leila...until the week of Christmas!! She had some massive poop for like a week straight (no other symptoms) which in turn made her bottom one, huge, red, hot mess. We couldn't change her without her crying and yelling "Blow! Blow!" It was so sad. Anyway, through this time, her B was her only sense of comfort and there was no way I was, I mean Santa, was going to take it. Soooooo, Santa emailed me back and said he would alert the binky fairy, have her get in contact with me, and set up a good time for her to come visit :)

6. Our family pictures came!! Thank you so much to Terri at Life Reflections! The have made a fabulous addition to our new fireplace!! I haven't had a chance to take a great pic, but this gives you an idea :) They are beautiful!!

7. My first week of menu planning is half way over! I spent TWO hours on Saturday night trying to plan for the week! Surely it gets easier...right? I have to say it has been nice coming home from work, knowing what is for dinner, fixing it, and having great left-overs for lunch the next day!

8. Josh and I have been asked to play on a co-ed volleyball team with some friends! Bring it! I can't wait for a little friendly competition! Should be a lot of fun with a lot of great people!

9. This is the first time that we have experienced a "Christmas Break" with Malakai as far as school goes! OMG! When it came time to go back this past Monday...he was NOT excited!! He had so much fun hanging with mommy and daddy, going to holiday camp at the rec center, and terrorizing Sara and Carrie, that the last thing on his mind was going back to school. Again...it gets easier...right?!

10. Last but not least...thank you for the additional prayers for my favorite nephew Alex! He was placed back in to the hospital this week and gave us all a scare. I can't imagine how my brother and Rebecca are feeling as they have gone through this emotional roller-coaster with him. I just wish we were all closer to each other so we could give them the support they deserve to have from us. Thank you to Colleen and Patrick for for being my eyes and heart out there! He is home now, it seems to be nothing too serious, and we all plan for a full recovery!

XOXO,

Year in Review

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Well, 2009 is over and it is time for 201o. Although 2009 wasn't an "awful" year by any means, it could have been better. One thing is true, my kids grew substantially and there is nothing better than watching them come in to their own.

When I sit back and look at the big picture, Josh and I are truly blessed. These two munchkins have changed our lives. Because of them, we are better people. We are better drivers, better eaters, better at not cursing (at least when they are around), better husband and wife, better teachers....just plain better!

So, as I write this final blog of 2009...I reflect on the growth of the two little people that without them, I would be fractional.

January 2009

February 2009

March 2009

April 2009

May 2009

June 2009

July 2009

August 2009

September 2009

October 2009

November 2009

December 2009

Till Next Year Blog Family!

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday

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Ten Things I would like to do this year....

1. Weekly meal menus. I'm not very good at planning dinner. In fact, I'm very guilty of running by the grocery store on my way home from work and picking up groceries to cook that night. I would love to start planning the week ahead of time.

2. Take a tropical vacation with just Josh and I.

3. Have the kids baptized.

4. Accept my dirty 30's with a bang. After all, 30 is the new 20.

5. Become a part of a monthly girls meet-up. Whether it be bunco, a book club, a wine club etc. Something I can look forward to each month and spending quality time with the ladies.

6. Go on a Scrapbooking weekend retreat.

7. Find more time for Josh to play golf. This is one thing he loves to do and hardly got to do at all this past year.

8. Focus on friendships, and being a better friend.

9. Hire a cleaning lady. Now that we are pretty much settled in, it's time!

10. Continue to grow my relationship with God.

XOXO,

Ten on Tuesday!

2009-12-22T21:27:00.007-06:00

How happy am I to be back online?! My access at work is minimal...will I ever catch up on what everyone has been up to??!! Here is my attempt to catch you all up on us :)

1. Birthdays, Birthdays, Birthdays! The first weekend of December we had 3 birthday parties to attend!! As most of you know, Josh is pretty much non-existent this time of year, so these parties were braved with both kids in tote, by myself. By the time the third rolled around (a pool party) I knew Leila was NOT going to make it! Thank goodness my mom could come over so I could drop her off in between and lay her down for a nap! This also meant, no pool for me, which was VERY exciting!!

2. The following weekend we had Malakai's big FIFTH birthday party! It was held at Bounce U! I am ALL about not having 20 5 year olds messing up my house!! This was an awesome location and the kids had a ball!! I can't believe he is 5!! Don't worry, there will be a future post about my baby :)

3. My Dad, Lisa, and Kiera always come in town for Malakai's party. It is so great to have them around! They helped SO much with preparation for the move!! My dad took several loads over to the new house and Lisa managed the kiddos as well as making sure that EVERY single piece of clothing/bedding/towels were clean. It was AMAZING! We couldn't have done it without them!!

4. Lisa also did a great craft with the kids. So creative and they just loved it. I don't have a picture of the final project (an ornament) but they are SO cute!!

5. Moving day was a HUGE success. Josh and I are so blessed with the friends in our lives! Autumn and Toro were there bright and early, eager to do whatever was needed. Also, one of the girls that works for Josh (Kelly) sent her husband (Adam) and his trailer over to help. SO FABULOUS! Thank you everyone for making that day a HUGE success!! Kelly also showed up at the house TWO nights with dinner and Autumn and Jimmy came over with amazing home-made cookies and wine! We LOVE all of you guys!!

6. We are finally starting to settle in! At least we are no longer living completely out of boxes! This is a huge part to Carrie and Sarah who helped out by organizing the kids' playroom, bedrooms, and kitchen! Thank you girls!!

7. Christmas shopping is Dun-zo! The tree is up, as well as the trees in Malakai and Leila's room. However, they have yet to see Santa!! This is on the agenda for tomorrow night. I am keeping my fingers crossed that Malakai's two items don't change since one of the items was next to impossible to get! Not because it was a Zhu Zhu pet, or something along those lines. It is a DS game that he saw a little boy playing that happens to be from 2006 and not in any stores!! Oh the things we do for our babies!

8. I got a promotion at work!! The prayers I asked you for awhile ago worked!! I applied for it months ago, and just found out two weeks ago that it is mine!! It is a bitter/sweet feeling because I absolutely LOVE the office I am at right now. The girls are amazing, and I have really have acquired some amazing friendships. However, it is a great career move and I am confident that those friendships will still be there when I leave.

9. Josh and I registered for the St. Louis half marathon in April!

10. Malakai had his Christmas Program at school and it was so, stinking, cute! The pre-school class only sang three songs, but it was adorable! He sang his little heart out! Wonder where he gets that from :)

XOXO,